1 00:00:01,120 --> 00:00:02,720 NARRATOR: Previously... What? 2 00:00:02,760 --> 00:00:03,760 That's huge. 3 00:00:03,800 --> 00:00:05,720 ..our couples were given the option 4 00:00:05,800 --> 00:00:08,480 to meet who else they could have been matched with. 5 00:00:08,520 --> 00:00:10,080 (LAUGHS) As if! 6 00:00:10,160 --> 00:00:12,800 NARRATOR: Rhi and Jeff turned down the opportunity. 7 00:00:12,880 --> 00:00:15,400 I couldn't be happier with where we're at in our relationship. 8 00:00:15,480 --> 00:00:18,520 I think it'd be very silly right now to throw that away. 9 00:00:18,560 --> 00:00:20,240 (LAUGHTER) 10 00:00:20,320 --> 00:00:22,640 NARRATOR: And despite secretly swapping numbers 11 00:00:22,720 --> 00:00:25,080 with the other person she was compatible with... 12 00:00:25,160 --> 00:00:27,960 You've got great posture, and your pats are so strong. 13 00:00:28,000 --> 00:00:29,760 They're like real pats. 14 00:00:29,840 --> 00:00:34,000 ..Jacqui celebrated her new-found appreciation for Ryan. 15 00:00:34,080 --> 00:00:35,440 Have a seat. Thank you. 16 00:00:35,520 --> 00:00:38,200 NARRATOR: Most of the couples took the option... 17 00:00:38,240 --> 00:00:39,440 I'm Adrian. Nice to meet you. 18 00:00:39,480 --> 00:00:41,280 I'm Awhina. Do we? 19 00:00:41,320 --> 00:00:43,400 ..but Awhina regretted her decision. 20 00:00:43,440 --> 00:00:45,560 I'm upset by our actions. 21 00:00:45,640 --> 00:00:48,040 My biggest worry was that you and I both went. 22 00:00:48,120 --> 00:00:50,120 I'm not worried. I couldn't care less. 23 00:00:50,880 --> 00:00:53,320 So, if you're so happy, why are you here? 24 00:00:53,360 --> 00:00:54,160 Um... 25 00:00:54,240 --> 00:00:57,000 NARRATOR: And when Paul's curiosity got the better of him... 26 00:00:57,080 --> 00:00:58,680 It's not cheating. It is! 27 00:00:58,720 --> 00:00:59,600 I don't appreciate that! 28 00:00:59,680 --> 00:01:01,280 Why is it cheating? You should know my morals. 29 00:01:01,320 --> 00:01:04,040 ..Carina drew her line in the sand. 30 00:01:04,080 --> 00:01:07,000 I'm so ready to go home without you. 31 00:01:07,080 --> 00:01:09,280 I'm actually done. Get your shit and leave. 32 00:01:12,520 --> 00:01:13,560 (GLASS DINGS) 33 00:01:13,600 --> 00:01:14,600 NARRATOR: Tonight... 34 00:01:14,640 --> 00:01:16,040 MAN: Dinner is served. 35 00:01:16,080 --> 00:01:18,440 It's been such a wild ride. 36 00:01:18,480 --> 00:01:20,120 (OVERLAPPING CHEERS) 37 00:01:20,200 --> 00:01:23,800 ..it's the last dinner party of the experiment. 38 00:01:23,840 --> 00:01:25,040 RHI: It's been amazing. 39 00:01:25,680 --> 00:01:27,360 All our hard work that we've put in. 40 00:01:27,440 --> 00:01:29,640 I'm just so proud of us that we're here right now. 41 00:01:29,720 --> 00:01:32,320 NARRATOR: While some are feeling stronger than ever... 42 00:01:32,360 --> 00:01:33,640 Grass is greener where you water it. 43 00:01:33,720 --> 00:01:36,000 Ryan and I, we're still watering our grass 44 00:01:36,040 --> 00:01:37,520 and it's still growing. We're happy. 45 00:01:37,600 --> 00:01:41,000 ..the same cannot be said for Awhina and Adrian. 46 00:01:41,040 --> 00:01:42,360 It was a date. 47 00:01:42,400 --> 00:01:43,640 And yeah, I regret it. 48 00:01:43,680 --> 00:01:46,080 He and I failed each other that day. 49 00:01:46,160 --> 00:01:48,280 Do you see any point going to Final Vows? 50 00:01:48,320 --> 00:01:49,440 Um... 51 00:01:50,200 --> 00:01:51,840 JEFF: Like, if you're truly happy with your relationship, 52 00:01:51,880 --> 00:01:52,800 you wouldn't have gone on a date. 53 00:01:52,880 --> 00:01:55,320 I wasn't thinking straight. It is not an excuse. 54 00:01:55,400 --> 00:01:58,360 NARRATOR: Can Paul win back Carina's trust? 55 00:01:58,400 --> 00:01:59,560 It makes me feel sick. 56 00:01:59,640 --> 00:02:01,640 Everything that we have built together, 57 00:02:01,680 --> 00:02:02,840 it's out the window for me. 58 00:02:02,880 --> 00:02:04,200 And I'm so sorry for that. 59 00:02:04,240 --> 00:02:05,520 Try harder. 60 00:02:05,560 --> 00:02:07,280 No, I'm a I'm a catch. 61 00:02:07,320 --> 00:02:09,000 Anyone would die to be with me. 62 00:02:09,680 --> 00:02:12,240 NARRATOR: Or will one shocking comment... 63 00:02:12,280 --> 00:02:13,200 PAUL: Well, look... 64 00:02:14,880 --> 00:02:18,600 ..see the couple implode right before final vows. 65 00:02:18,640 --> 00:02:20,240 Are you serious? 66 00:02:31,120 --> 00:02:32,960 PAUL: Well, I'm certainly not feeling the best this morning. 67 00:02:36,040 --> 00:02:38,040 Yeah, I've just been reflecting and looking back 68 00:02:38,080 --> 00:02:39,800 on this stupid decision that I... 69 00:02:39,880 --> 00:02:42,120 that I made yesterday to go on this stupid date. 70 00:02:48,640 --> 00:02:51,840 (FOOTSTEPS) 71 00:02:51,880 --> 00:02:52,960 Hey. 72 00:02:53,040 --> 00:02:54,320 Good. Paul. Hello. 73 00:02:54,400 --> 00:02:56,480 I'm Hannah. Let's do - we'll do two. 74 00:02:57,480 --> 00:03:00,360 So, if you're so happy, why are you here? 75 00:03:00,920 --> 00:03:02,280 Why are we on a date? 76 00:03:03,040 --> 00:03:05,440 Does she know that you're here? (LAUGHS) 77 00:03:07,200 --> 00:03:08,720 Have you done this in past relationships? 78 00:03:11,560 --> 00:03:12,960 Why didn't it work out with your wife? 79 00:03:21,360 --> 00:03:22,560 So, I've got good news? 80 00:03:22,640 --> 00:03:24,200 Yeah. Oh, yay! 81 00:03:24,240 --> 00:03:25,320 Wait, what do you mean? 82 00:03:25,400 --> 00:03:26,360 Oh, did you... Did you go? 83 00:03:26,440 --> 00:03:28,720 No, I did, I did, I did, but no, no, but, like, don't worry. 84 00:03:28,800 --> 00:03:29,760 It was... You went. 85 00:03:32,040 --> 00:03:33,800 No, no, no, no, no. 86 00:03:33,880 --> 00:03:35,360 There's no going past this. I understand. 87 00:03:35,440 --> 00:03:38,480 Like, you did not consider how I was going to feel again. 88 00:03:38,560 --> 00:03:40,040 Again, Paul. And I'm so... 89 00:03:40,120 --> 00:03:43,520 No, (BLEEP) this. Like, I'm not even - I'm not - I don't care. 90 00:03:43,600 --> 00:03:45,880 I'm done. Like that was the last straw. 91 00:03:45,960 --> 00:03:47,120 You say that - you say that because you're angry. 92 00:03:47,160 --> 00:03:48,360 No, I'm done. 93 00:03:48,440 --> 00:03:49,960 I don't want anything to do with this. 94 00:04:00,920 --> 00:04:04,800 Yeah, and I'm extremely remorseful and I miss Carina. 95 00:04:09,320 --> 00:04:12,520 Like, I just, yeah, I'm just, yeah, I'm just stupid. That's, yeah. 96 00:04:18,040 --> 00:04:19,920 NARRATOR: As Paul navigates the consequences 97 00:04:19,960 --> 00:04:21,680 of the final task... 98 00:04:23,160 --> 00:04:28,120 ..across the hall, a heartbroken Carina is still processing 99 00:04:28,200 --> 00:04:33,480 and attempting to adjust to living in the marital home alone. 100 00:04:33,560 --> 00:04:38,560 Paul's actions have definitely made me question our relationship. 101 00:04:38,640 --> 00:04:42,920 If he was, like, sincere and a realist, 102 00:04:42,960 --> 00:04:45,640 and in it for the right reasons... 103 00:04:47,440 --> 00:04:48,680 It's draining. 104 00:04:48,720 --> 00:04:49,880 Yeah. It's... 105 00:04:49,920 --> 00:04:51,080 You just want to sleep. 106 00:04:52,280 --> 00:04:56,240 I feel completely disrespected and embarrassed. 107 00:04:58,320 --> 00:05:03,280 My, like the person that I am, like, I am such a like a loving, 108 00:05:03,320 --> 00:05:06,560 caring, gentle person. 109 00:05:06,640 --> 00:05:11,960 Like, my soul and like, tried to be the best person I can be. 110 00:05:12,680 --> 00:05:14,840 But if anyone like, oversteps that 111 00:05:14,920 --> 00:05:17,760 and obviously my horns are going to come up 112 00:05:17,800 --> 00:05:19,960 and that's exactly what's happened. 113 00:05:20,040 --> 00:05:23,440 I just feel like, yeah, I don't, I don't think 114 00:05:23,480 --> 00:05:25,400 there's any coming back from this. 115 00:05:25,480 --> 00:05:27,960 Like, I forgave him for other things that happened 116 00:05:28,000 --> 00:05:29,480 throughout the experiment, 117 00:05:29,520 --> 00:05:33,400 and that was a big one for me. 118 00:05:37,360 --> 00:05:39,880 NARRATOR: As Carina contemplates her future... 119 00:05:40,760 --> 00:05:43,760 (UPLIFTING MUSIC) 120 00:05:44,320 --> 00:05:46,600 ..the rest of the couples are getting ready 121 00:05:46,640 --> 00:05:48,560 for the final dinner party. 122 00:05:52,480 --> 00:05:55,880 Tonight is also the last time the group will be together 123 00:05:55,920 --> 00:05:57,880 before final vows. 124 00:05:59,960 --> 00:06:04,200 For Rhi and Jeff, the final task only solidified 125 00:06:04,240 --> 00:06:06,400 their commitment to one another, 126 00:06:06,480 --> 00:06:09,520 and with the end of the experiment around the corner, 127 00:06:09,560 --> 00:06:11,320 the couple are reminiscing 128 00:06:11,400 --> 00:06:13,600 on the good times spent together. (WOLF WHISTLES) 129 00:06:13,680 --> 00:06:15,240 Hello! You look so good. 130 00:06:15,320 --> 00:06:17,720 Wowie! I love the green. 131 00:06:17,800 --> 00:06:19,440 You look awesome. Thank you. 132 00:06:19,520 --> 00:06:22,360 I feel great going into the dinner party with Rhi tonight. 133 00:06:22,400 --> 00:06:24,160 We're in a great spot. 134 00:06:24,240 --> 00:06:26,440 We both said no to the task from the experts. 135 00:06:27,160 --> 00:06:29,160 I feel really strong with our relationship. 136 00:06:29,240 --> 00:06:31,560 Walking into the last dinner party together, hand-in-hand, 137 00:06:31,640 --> 00:06:34,160 in a romantic, solid relationship feels great. 138 00:06:34,240 --> 00:06:35,960 Do you remember our first dinner party? 139 00:06:36,000 --> 00:06:37,000 Yeah. I was so nervous. 140 00:06:37,080 --> 00:06:38,480 We were both so nervous. I was so nervous. 141 00:06:38,560 --> 00:06:40,720 We're just standing there behind that door, shaking. 142 00:06:40,760 --> 00:06:41,840 Yeah. 143 00:06:41,920 --> 00:06:44,120 And it's weird to think that we were actually friends then. 144 00:06:44,200 --> 00:06:47,600 100%. I think thinking back on that first dinner party, 145 00:06:47,680 --> 00:06:51,080 like, yeah, we were friends, but also we just had each other's back, 146 00:06:51,160 --> 00:06:52,800 like, and we, you know... Yeah, we still held hands. 147 00:06:52,880 --> 00:06:55,560 We held hands, like we were supportive of each other 148 00:06:55,640 --> 00:06:57,920 and like, as scary and as daunting as it was, 149 00:06:58,000 --> 00:06:59,920 like, I still knew you were there for me. 150 00:06:59,960 --> 00:07:02,720 I never in my wildest dreams 151 00:07:02,800 --> 00:07:05,960 thought that I'd be walking into the dinner party with Jeff 152 00:07:06,000 --> 00:07:07,400 as strong as we are. 153 00:07:07,480 --> 00:07:10,720 Obviously, from walking down the aisle to someone I'd dated, 154 00:07:10,800 --> 00:07:14,040 to being in the friend zone for like three or four weeks 155 00:07:14,120 --> 00:07:15,920 to now being at the final dinner party, 156 00:07:15,960 --> 00:07:17,640 a really strong couple. 157 00:07:17,680 --> 00:07:18,840 It feels very... 158 00:07:18,880 --> 00:07:20,520 I feel very proud of us. 159 00:07:20,600 --> 00:07:23,480 It is. It is crazy thinking about how far we've come. 160 00:07:24,360 --> 00:07:25,840 And this is the last night in this house. 161 00:07:25,880 --> 00:07:26,880 Last one. 162 00:07:27,640 --> 00:07:29,360 A lot of laughs. A lot of laughs. 163 00:07:29,400 --> 00:07:31,360 But many firsts on their way. 164 00:07:31,440 --> 00:07:32,400 (LAUGHTER) True. 165 00:07:35,080 --> 00:07:37,520 NARRATOR: The final task has also done wonders 166 00:07:37,560 --> 00:07:39,440 for Jacqui and Ryan, 167 00:07:39,520 --> 00:07:42,520 and peace has been restored to their relationship. 168 00:07:43,560 --> 00:07:45,840 But Jacqui is feeling sentimental... 169 00:07:45,880 --> 00:07:48,720 (JACQUI SOBS AND CRIES) 170 00:07:48,800 --> 00:07:53,120 ..about it being the final dinner party of the experiment. 171 00:07:53,160 --> 00:07:56,160 (CRYING) 172 00:07:56,960 --> 00:07:58,160 But you look so beautiful. 173 00:07:58,240 --> 00:08:02,920 I know, but it makes me sad that this could be our last dinner. 174 00:08:04,680 --> 00:08:06,320 It's been unbelievable for me. 175 00:08:06,360 --> 00:08:07,200 (JACQUI BLOWS HER NOSE) 176 00:08:07,280 --> 00:08:09,000 I've learned so much from this relationship. 177 00:08:09,080 --> 00:08:10,920 I've learned so much from you. (JACQUI BLOWS HER NOSE) 178 00:08:11,680 --> 00:08:13,960 (BLOWS HER NOSE) You got me gifts. 179 00:08:14,000 --> 00:08:15,000 We drank some red wine. 180 00:08:15,080 --> 00:08:17,320 We cooked together. Made pasta. Yeah. 181 00:08:19,480 --> 00:08:22,000 Like, I didn't know how open to that I was going to be, but I just... 182 00:08:22,080 --> 00:08:24,840 I just let it flow. (BLOWS HER NOSE) 183 00:08:24,920 --> 00:08:27,200 NARRATOR: Despite their united front.. 184 00:08:27,280 --> 00:08:30,120 (BLOWS HER NOSE) ..unbeknown to husband, Ryan, 185 00:08:30,160 --> 00:08:32,120 during the final task, 186 00:08:32,200 --> 00:08:34,800 Jacqui swapped numbers with the other person 187 00:08:34,840 --> 00:08:36,720 she was compatible with. 188 00:08:40,160 --> 00:08:41,280 Ten days? 189 00:08:41,320 --> 00:08:43,320 (LAUGHS) 190 00:08:49,040 --> 00:08:50,360 That'd be great. Yeah. Yeah. 191 00:08:54,200 --> 00:08:56,560 I didn't tell Ryan that I swapped numbers with Rory, 192 00:08:56,600 --> 00:08:58,680 but he didn't ask, so it's OK. 193 00:09:00,760 --> 00:09:02,560 I think this was a real marriage. 194 00:09:02,640 --> 00:09:04,840 And I think we've had the opportunity 195 00:09:04,920 --> 00:09:08,600 to go through challenges together and overcome them as a couple, 196 00:09:08,680 --> 00:09:11,040 and I think in terms of the most successful marriage, 197 00:09:11,120 --> 00:09:13,280 I would say ours is probably the most successful marriage 198 00:09:13,320 --> 00:09:14,480 out of all of them. 199 00:09:15,200 --> 00:09:17,720 (JACQUI BLOWS HER NOSE) 200 00:09:21,480 --> 00:09:25,560 NARRATOR: Across the hall, however, it's an entirely different story 201 00:09:25,600 --> 00:09:27,320 for Beth and Teejay. 202 00:09:29,000 --> 00:09:31,560 I mean, obviously he wrote leave at the commitment ceremony. 203 00:09:32,520 --> 00:09:34,400 Like, if I'd have written leave, we would have gone 204 00:09:34,480 --> 00:09:35,440 and never spoken to each other again. 205 00:09:35,520 --> 00:09:39,400 So, we started the week off really - um, it was awkward. 206 00:09:39,480 --> 00:09:41,360 It didn't feel nice. There was animosity. 207 00:09:42,200 --> 00:09:44,120 We both then chose to go on our final date 208 00:09:44,200 --> 00:09:47,880 with our other matches, which completely threw me. 209 00:09:49,120 --> 00:09:53,920 Like, I guess with the mindset I was going in, 210 00:09:54,000 --> 00:09:58,120 I was trying to get some, I guess, get rid of some head noise 211 00:09:58,200 --> 00:10:01,520 and see where that sort of pushed me, whether it was to or from you, 212 00:10:01,600 --> 00:10:04,360 and it kind of just left me neutral, to be completely honest with you. 213 00:10:07,720 --> 00:10:08,680 Excellent. 214 00:10:09,880 --> 00:10:12,920 Walking in with Teejay tonight is not the nicest feeling, you know, 215 00:10:13,000 --> 00:10:14,440 and I go back to our first couple of dinner parties. 216 00:10:14,520 --> 00:10:17,360 I always felt so confident and so proud and so good 217 00:10:17,400 --> 00:10:18,480 walking in with Teejay. 218 00:10:18,520 --> 00:10:20,760 Tonight, a bit of a different story. 219 00:10:20,800 --> 00:10:22,680 There's a lot of tension, animosity, 220 00:10:22,760 --> 00:10:26,320 it's not feeling good, but I think tonight is going to be a big one, 221 00:10:26,360 --> 00:10:28,160 the most chaotic of them all. 222 00:10:29,960 --> 00:10:33,040 NARRATOR: Whilst Beth grapples with a sense of finality, 223 00:10:33,120 --> 00:10:39,080 Adrian is embracing the nostalgia of the final days of the experiment. 224 00:10:39,120 --> 00:10:41,040 Nice final dinner party. 225 00:10:41,080 --> 00:10:42,520 Actually, it'll be sad. 226 00:10:43,480 --> 00:10:44,760 You know? Feel like it was yesterday, 227 00:10:44,840 --> 00:10:47,280 we had our first dinner party, and today is the last one. 228 00:10:48,640 --> 00:10:51,080 Some good times and some bad times at these dinner parties. 229 00:10:52,000 --> 00:10:56,440 NARRATOR: Little does he know, wife Awhina is still crestfallen 230 00:10:56,520 --> 00:11:01,200 after both chose to participate in the final task. 231 00:11:01,280 --> 00:11:03,240 I still think if you were to ask Adrian right now 232 00:11:03,320 --> 00:11:06,160 what I'm upset about, he would just say, "She's in a bad mood." 233 00:11:06,200 --> 00:11:09,080 Like, he just doesn't understand. 234 00:11:09,120 --> 00:11:10,360 Are you ready to go? 235 00:11:11,800 --> 00:11:12,680 Are you excited? 236 00:11:14,000 --> 00:11:16,760 He and I failed each other that day. 237 00:11:17,960 --> 00:11:19,320 Did you go? Yeah. 238 00:11:19,400 --> 00:11:20,480 You did? Yeah. 239 00:11:22,240 --> 00:11:23,960 I went on mine. 240 00:11:24,040 --> 00:11:26,560 Yeah. It's fine. I'm not worried. 241 00:11:26,600 --> 00:11:27,960 I couldn't care less. 242 00:11:30,840 --> 00:11:32,080 Yeah, I don't know. 243 00:11:32,160 --> 00:11:34,680 I just expected a stronger reaction from Adrian. 244 00:11:35,560 --> 00:11:36,960 I just went and hung out with a guy. 245 00:11:37,040 --> 00:11:37,880 Yeah. And you don't care. 246 00:11:38,880 --> 00:11:40,400 I care that you went. 247 00:11:46,880 --> 00:11:52,960 It hurts me because I know that he is so not aware 248 00:11:53,040 --> 00:11:55,480 of the situation, and he doesn't understand 249 00:11:55,520 --> 00:11:57,360 that his actions have repercussions. 250 00:11:58,920 --> 00:12:00,160 He doesn't see me. 251 00:12:00,720 --> 00:12:01,920 He only sees himself. 252 00:12:06,440 --> 00:12:08,880 NARRATOR: For Paul, tonight's dinner party 253 00:12:08,960 --> 00:12:12,040 marks the first time he will see Carina 254 00:12:12,120 --> 00:12:15,400 after a catastrophic end to the final task. 255 00:12:16,440 --> 00:12:20,000 As Carina and Paul prepare for the final dinner party 256 00:12:20,040 --> 00:12:22,040 in separate rooms, 257 00:12:22,120 --> 00:12:26,240 speculation about Paul's participation in the final task 258 00:12:26,320 --> 00:12:29,640 continues to circulate through the apartments. 259 00:12:29,720 --> 00:12:31,560 JEFF: I'm pretty disappointed with Paul's behaviour. 260 00:12:31,640 --> 00:12:33,720 I thought they were in a great relationship. 261 00:12:35,320 --> 00:12:38,080 RHI: I feel like he'd probably feel pretty ashamed 262 00:12:38,160 --> 00:12:41,640 considering that him and Carina are now in another bad situation. 263 00:12:42,320 --> 00:12:44,120 JEFF: I thought this was the last thing he would do 264 00:12:44,160 --> 00:12:45,320 is go on the date. 265 00:12:46,400 --> 00:12:48,320 BETH: I do not know why Paul did that. 266 00:12:48,360 --> 00:12:49,560 Big mistake, bro. 267 00:12:51,400 --> 00:12:53,720 RHI: I have no idea if they're actually going to be walking in 268 00:12:53,760 --> 00:12:55,600 as a couple tonight or separately. 269 00:12:58,000 --> 00:13:02,520 I really do hope that Carina walks in with her head held high. 270 00:13:05,760 --> 00:13:07,680 JAMIE: Like, what's going on? What's next? 271 00:13:07,760 --> 00:13:09,960 I don't know what's going to happen tonight. 272 00:13:13,520 --> 00:13:17,080 RYAN: It's ultimately up to Carina if she forgives. 273 00:13:19,040 --> 00:13:21,440 Is she capable of forgiving Paul? 274 00:13:21,480 --> 00:13:22,560 Because Paul, I think, 275 00:13:22,640 --> 00:13:25,080 is going to be on his hands and knees at this point. 276 00:13:39,360 --> 00:13:40,360 JOHN: Here we are, 277 00:13:40,440 --> 00:13:43,680 the very final dinner party of the entire experiment. 278 00:13:44,400 --> 00:13:46,440 They're at the pointy end now. They've got to decide, 279 00:13:46,520 --> 00:13:49,920 am I going to take this relationship into the real world? 280 00:13:49,960 --> 00:13:51,600 So, there's a lot at stake tonight. 281 00:13:52,880 --> 00:13:56,000 MEL: And this week, we've given them a final task. 282 00:13:56,040 --> 00:13:57,080 Yes. That's right. 283 00:13:57,160 --> 00:13:59,160 I mean, we gave them this, and it's unprecedented. 284 00:13:59,200 --> 00:14:00,560 It's never been done before. 285 00:14:00,600 --> 00:14:02,240 It's a polarising task 286 00:14:02,320 --> 00:14:05,040 where they were given the choice to meet another potential match, 287 00:14:05,120 --> 00:14:07,800 and we did this to find out just how committed 288 00:14:07,840 --> 00:14:09,560 they are to one another. 289 00:14:12,280 --> 00:14:15,920 We wanted to see how they actually respond to that, 290 00:14:16,000 --> 00:14:18,920 particularly now when they've got to make this final decision. 291 00:14:19,920 --> 00:14:22,680 I think what's going to be really telling is finding out 292 00:14:22,760 --> 00:14:26,720 who chose to partake in this final task and how that decision 293 00:14:26,800 --> 00:14:30,000 has impacted their relationship, and perhaps even the commitment 294 00:14:30,080 --> 00:14:32,880 they had to the relationship in the first place. 295 00:14:34,200 --> 00:14:37,200 And it's also a test of resilience for the couple, isn't it, 296 00:14:37,280 --> 00:14:41,160 in terms of, "OK, if my partner went out and met this other person, 297 00:14:41,240 --> 00:14:43,400 "is this something we can repair from, 298 00:14:43,480 --> 00:14:46,480 "that we can bounce back from and actually start a new chapter 299 00:14:46,520 --> 00:14:47,640 "in the relationship?" 300 00:14:52,160 --> 00:14:57,480 Rhi and Jeff, looking loved up, comfortable, happy together, 301 00:14:57,560 --> 00:14:59,360 absolutely connected. Yeah. 302 00:14:59,400 --> 00:15:00,920 It's just effortless. 303 00:15:01,000 --> 00:15:03,320 It's a lot of love. There's a lot of love. 304 00:15:03,360 --> 00:15:04,600 I have so much hope. 305 00:15:04,680 --> 00:15:10,120 I cannot wait to see how they show up at the final vows 306 00:15:10,200 --> 00:15:12,840 and take this relationship into the real world. 307 00:15:13,640 --> 00:15:14,680 Cheers. Cheers. 308 00:15:15,520 --> 00:15:17,080 The fact that it's the final dinner party, 309 00:15:17,160 --> 00:15:20,760 standing here with my husband, we walked in as friends. 310 00:15:20,840 --> 00:15:23,400 Obviously, it took us a little while to get here, but we're here. 311 00:15:23,440 --> 00:15:24,800 It has been a journey. 312 00:15:24,840 --> 00:15:26,120 It sure has. 313 00:15:26,160 --> 00:15:27,920 All our hard work that we've put in, 314 00:15:28,000 --> 00:15:30,080 I'm just so proud of us that we're here right now, 315 00:15:30,120 --> 00:15:31,160 a strong couple. 316 00:15:31,200 --> 00:15:32,600 Cheers to the last dinner party. 317 00:15:32,680 --> 00:15:34,080 Yeah. Cheers. Cheers to our relationship. 318 00:15:34,120 --> 00:15:35,160 Yes. 319 00:15:35,240 --> 00:15:37,640 Couldn't be more thankful and happy for the hard work we put in 320 00:15:37,720 --> 00:15:40,840 and the amazing person and wife I have here today. 321 00:15:40,920 --> 00:15:42,360 Oh, thanks. (LAUGHTER) 322 00:15:42,440 --> 00:15:44,880 No, I... Yeah, I'm very thankful and very happy. 323 00:15:44,960 --> 00:15:48,440 I can't wait to find out who went on the date. 324 00:15:48,480 --> 00:15:49,760 I can't wait either. 325 00:15:49,840 --> 00:15:52,600 I'd love to know everyone's, like, reasoning behind 326 00:15:52,640 --> 00:15:54,400 if they did go on it. 327 00:15:54,480 --> 00:15:56,200 Like and like we both said to each other, we were curious 328 00:15:56,240 --> 00:15:57,600 of what they looked like. 329 00:15:57,680 --> 00:15:59,600 Yeah. But there was nothing - that was it. 330 00:15:59,680 --> 00:16:00,800 Like, that was where it stopped for me. 331 00:16:00,880 --> 00:16:04,040 But now I'm just like, thank god, I'm in a relationship with you 332 00:16:04,120 --> 00:16:06,400 because I know it's real. You know it's real. 333 00:16:06,480 --> 00:16:07,840 Yeah. Just from that last task, 334 00:16:07,880 --> 00:16:09,200 it was sort of like the last, 335 00:16:09,280 --> 00:16:11,000 I guess, tick of the box for us, I think. 336 00:16:11,080 --> 00:16:14,200 There's a difference between curiosity and being curious 337 00:16:14,280 --> 00:16:16,120 and actioning. Yeah, for 100%. 338 00:16:16,200 --> 00:16:17,640 Yeah. It's going to be crazy. 339 00:16:17,720 --> 00:16:19,480 I cannot wait to find out what's happened. 340 00:16:21,680 --> 00:16:23,600 Hi, guys! 341 00:16:23,640 --> 00:16:26,840 MEL: Jamie and Dave, big smiles. 342 00:16:26,880 --> 00:16:29,440 (SQUEALS) I'm so excited! 343 00:16:29,520 --> 00:16:31,400 ALESSANDRA: It is actually nice to see them 344 00:16:31,440 --> 00:16:33,000 walk in hand-in-hand and smiling. 345 00:16:33,840 --> 00:16:36,080 (SQUEALS) (LAUGHS) 346 00:16:36,160 --> 00:16:37,360 Don't do it! Go on! 347 00:16:37,400 --> 00:16:38,520 David, don't do it! 348 00:16:38,560 --> 00:16:40,040 (LAUGHTER) 349 00:16:40,120 --> 00:16:41,880 (CORK POPS) Oh! 350 00:16:41,960 --> 00:16:46,040 If there wasn't a camera crew in here, I'd give you a right scuff. 351 00:16:46,120 --> 00:16:48,240 (LAUGHTER) DAVE: Cheers, guys. 352 00:16:48,320 --> 00:16:49,800 Cheers, guys. Cheers. 353 00:16:49,880 --> 00:16:51,760 Cheers! To our last dinner party. 354 00:16:51,840 --> 00:16:54,080 Who would have thought? We were just talking about the task. 355 00:16:54,160 --> 00:16:55,720 I know you guys... What do you think? 356 00:16:55,760 --> 00:16:56,880 What do you think we did? 357 00:16:56,960 --> 00:16:58,520 Well, you guys are, like, the epitome of, like, you know, 358 00:16:58,600 --> 00:17:02,920 that good piece of toast with butter, like, always going to go down well. 359 00:17:03,000 --> 00:17:05,120 Oh, thank you. You don't know what we've done yet. 360 00:17:05,200 --> 00:17:06,480 Yeah. I know there's no way. 361 00:17:08,560 --> 00:17:09,760 Did you? No! 362 00:17:09,840 --> 00:17:12,560 No, we didn't. No, didn't do it. (LAUGHS) 363 00:17:12,640 --> 00:17:16,560 For me, it was just simply because I'm the nosiest bloody bitch. 364 00:17:16,640 --> 00:17:18,840 Yeah. I couldn't help myself. 365 00:17:18,920 --> 00:17:20,880 I, honestly, was just like, "Who is he?" 366 00:17:20,960 --> 00:17:22,200 And that's why I was, when Dave said, 367 00:17:22,240 --> 00:17:23,720 "I didn't see this other woman", 368 00:17:23,760 --> 00:17:25,040 I'm like, "Why not?" 369 00:17:25,120 --> 00:17:27,440 And curiosity does kill the bloody cat 370 00:17:27,520 --> 00:17:30,760 because, like, I still have no idea who this person is. 371 00:17:30,800 --> 00:17:32,080 You got stood up? 372 00:17:32,120 --> 00:17:33,720 Never even met this man. 373 00:17:33,800 --> 00:17:35,040 So, it was actually... What? 374 00:17:35,120 --> 00:17:37,000 It was the worst case scenario 'cause I'm like... 375 00:17:37,080 --> 00:17:38,760 Oh, no! So, now I've done all this... 376 00:17:38,800 --> 00:17:39,960 You are kidding! 377 00:17:40,000 --> 00:17:42,320 (LAUGHS) The fact... 378 00:17:42,400 --> 00:17:45,520 It's actually funny that Jamie took up the offer to go on the date 379 00:17:45,560 --> 00:17:46,640 and then got stood up. 380 00:17:46,680 --> 00:17:48,760 Um, I think it's quite hilarious. 381 00:17:49,480 --> 00:17:51,120 I'm just a nosy bitch. 382 00:17:51,160 --> 00:17:52,320 I was like, who is this other person? 383 00:17:52,360 --> 00:17:53,600 And I started speculating. 384 00:17:53,640 --> 00:17:54,680 Speaking of speculating... 385 00:17:54,760 --> 00:17:56,200 Who else do you reckon went on the date? 386 00:18:14,280 --> 00:18:15,560 Why the (BLEEP) am I the bad guy now? 387 00:18:17,360 --> 00:18:18,680 We've been great. 388 00:18:18,720 --> 00:18:20,520 Like, we had one more dinner party. 389 00:18:20,600 --> 00:18:23,040 You know, I'm pretty good at taking accountability sometimes 390 00:18:23,120 --> 00:18:26,160 and this is one of those times where it's absolutely not my fault. 391 00:18:37,960 --> 00:18:39,840 Hey! Hey! 392 00:18:39,920 --> 00:18:41,440 What's happening, everyone? JEFF: Two packs of Coors here. 393 00:18:41,480 --> 00:18:42,280 Yeah, mate. 394 00:18:42,320 --> 00:18:43,960 Adrian and Awhina. 395 00:18:44,000 --> 00:18:45,720 JOHN: Oh... 396 00:18:45,760 --> 00:18:46,720 MEL: Pretty low energy... 397 00:18:46,800 --> 00:18:48,760 Yeah. ..entrance for the two of them, 398 00:18:48,800 --> 00:18:49,880 isn't it? 399 00:18:49,960 --> 00:18:51,960 What's going on, mate? Dave. Big Dave. 400 00:18:52,000 --> 00:18:53,160 Oh, my god... 401 00:18:53,240 --> 00:18:56,680 And yes, they're holding hands, but definitely a lower level of energy 402 00:18:56,720 --> 00:18:58,720 and excitement than we're used to. 403 00:18:58,760 --> 00:19:00,120 Hello. 404 00:19:00,160 --> 00:19:01,720 JAMIE: Hello, hot stuff. 405 00:19:01,800 --> 00:19:03,000 Thanks. Back at you, baby. 406 00:19:03,040 --> 00:19:05,000 Oh, I'm not talking to this. 407 00:19:07,360 --> 00:19:08,960 Look, Adrian, we definitely weren't talking to you. 408 00:19:09,040 --> 00:19:10,560 We're talking to each other. (LAUGHS) 409 00:19:10,640 --> 00:19:12,800 I do want to hear what's going on with Adrian and Awhina. 410 00:19:12,880 --> 00:19:15,400 I feel like there's just a lot of pots again, simmering, 411 00:19:15,480 --> 00:19:18,480 so let's just... Let's just air it all out tonight. 412 00:19:18,560 --> 00:19:21,360 Did you guys go on your catch-up? We did. Yeah, both of us. 413 00:19:21,440 --> 00:19:22,960 Hang on, hang on, hang on. You both went on the date? 414 00:19:23,000 --> 00:19:23,840 Yes. 415 00:19:23,920 --> 00:19:27,360 Awhina and Adrian both met their other potential match. 416 00:19:27,440 --> 00:19:29,960 ALESSANDRA: Their energy shift is so big. 417 00:19:30,000 --> 00:19:31,480 What does that say? 418 00:19:31,560 --> 00:19:34,600 AWHINA: If you do have some level of doubt in your relationship, 419 00:19:34,680 --> 00:19:36,360 curiosity's still going to be there. 420 00:19:36,440 --> 00:19:37,920 I think you and I must have been curious. 421 00:19:38,000 --> 00:19:41,000 I had a few questions that I feel like I wanted answers to. 422 00:19:41,040 --> 00:19:42,360 That's how I went into. 423 00:19:42,440 --> 00:19:43,960 I didn't go out of curiosity who the other person was. 424 00:19:44,040 --> 00:19:45,880 That wasn't my perspective going into that. 425 00:19:45,960 --> 00:19:48,000 I looked at it as a task, a different perspective, but... 426 00:19:48,080 --> 00:19:49,560 Do you actually think you looked at it like a task? 427 00:19:50,560 --> 00:19:52,600 Adrian's making light of it. 428 00:19:52,680 --> 00:19:54,720 ALESSANDRA: Are they acting like they're in a real marriage? 429 00:19:54,800 --> 00:19:57,880 Are they considering this relationship with the gravitas 430 00:19:57,960 --> 00:20:00,600 and the importance that you would in a real marriage? 431 00:20:00,680 --> 00:20:02,240 Hang on, hang on. So, you didn't go... 432 00:20:02,320 --> 00:20:03,360 You didn't go 'cause of curiosity. 433 00:20:03,400 --> 00:20:05,800 I wanted to see why. How, why... 434 00:20:05,880 --> 00:20:07,320 Isn't that curiosity? Seeing why is curious. 435 00:20:07,360 --> 00:20:08,480 Yeah, that's curiosity. 436 00:20:08,560 --> 00:20:11,920 We both were curious, and we both said yes to the task. 437 00:20:12,000 --> 00:20:14,800 Some of the language he uses is because he's trying 438 00:20:14,840 --> 00:20:16,120 to not answer the question. 439 00:20:16,200 --> 00:20:17,800 He's avoiding answering the question. 440 00:20:17,840 --> 00:20:19,440 Awhina, do you regret going on it? 441 00:20:19,480 --> 00:20:21,200 I felt like we failed that task. 442 00:20:21,280 --> 00:20:23,760 Like, at the end of it, I look, I reflect in hindsight, 443 00:20:23,840 --> 00:20:25,600 I kind of like, I feel like we both failed. 444 00:20:25,680 --> 00:20:27,960 So, you didn't answer it, right? She didn't answer Jeff's question. 445 00:20:28,040 --> 00:20:29,200 Did you regret it or not? I did, I actually did. 446 00:20:29,280 --> 00:20:31,080 I did, Adrian. Do you listen to me? Do you regret it? 447 00:20:31,160 --> 00:20:33,640 I mean, you did a big answer. I actually said I regret it. 448 00:20:35,320 --> 00:20:37,520 We both did the challenge, babe. I do regret it. 449 00:20:37,600 --> 00:20:40,080 I regret it because I feel like you and I both failed. 450 00:20:40,160 --> 00:20:42,760 So, I cop it for going and she regrets. Figure that one out. 451 00:20:42,840 --> 00:20:44,160 Did you actually cop it though, Adrian? 452 00:20:44,240 --> 00:20:45,400 You were mad at me. You said you were mad. 453 00:20:45,480 --> 00:20:48,560 Oh, my god, let's tell everyone about what my mad looks like. 454 00:20:48,640 --> 00:20:50,240 OK, you made the decision. Own it. I said I made the decision. 455 00:20:50,320 --> 00:20:51,160 Anyways. Adrian. 456 00:20:51,240 --> 00:20:53,480 Every time you're upset, you come at me like this 457 00:20:53,520 --> 00:20:54,400 and that's exactly what she did. 458 00:20:54,480 --> 00:20:55,840 I'm actually not entertaining you right now. 459 00:20:55,880 --> 00:20:57,000 Alright, let's have one... 460 00:20:57,080 --> 00:20:58,400 I'm not entertaining you right now, Adrian. 461 00:20:58,440 --> 00:20:59,240 I don't care. 462 00:21:00,240 --> 00:21:01,840 There's multiple times throughout this moment 463 00:21:01,920 --> 00:21:04,240 where I don't feel seen or heard by Adrian. 464 00:21:04,280 --> 00:21:05,960 Or sometimes I'm voicing an opinion 465 00:21:06,040 --> 00:21:08,160 instead of actually validating your partner. 466 00:21:08,200 --> 00:21:10,400 I think he thinks about how it looks 467 00:21:10,480 --> 00:21:12,360 rather than how his partner is feeling. 468 00:21:12,440 --> 00:21:16,240 When I read that challenge, I was curious and so was he. 469 00:21:16,320 --> 00:21:18,600 At times in my relationship, I have wondered 470 00:21:18,640 --> 00:21:20,680 why we were paired together, 471 00:21:20,760 --> 00:21:24,040 and it took weeks for him to even ask me questions about my child, 472 00:21:24,120 --> 00:21:25,680 and then when I met this other person, 473 00:21:25,760 --> 00:21:28,400 like, you know, they were asking me questions like about my son, 474 00:21:28,440 --> 00:21:29,560 about my job. 475 00:21:29,640 --> 00:21:31,720 Adrian didn't know I had a job three weeks in. 476 00:21:31,800 --> 00:21:34,720 Ah, so that's interesting from Awhina. 477 00:21:34,800 --> 00:21:37,840 I mean, it's hard to know, isn't it, whether Awhina has had 478 00:21:37,880 --> 00:21:40,240 this realisation since the final test 479 00:21:40,320 --> 00:21:43,120 or whether she was aware of it throughout the experiment. 480 00:21:43,200 --> 00:21:46,160 Yeah. She may not have been ready to see what she already knew. 481 00:21:46,200 --> 00:21:47,200 Yeah. 482 00:21:49,120 --> 00:21:50,440 Hey! 483 00:21:50,520 --> 00:21:53,080 The king and queen of confusion are back. 484 00:21:55,480 --> 00:21:57,680 Jacqui and Ryan. Oh! 485 00:21:57,760 --> 00:21:59,520 Oh, my god! (LAUGHS) 486 00:21:59,560 --> 00:22:01,120 You guys never fail to entertain me! 487 00:22:01,200 --> 00:22:03,000 (LAUGHTER) Hello! 488 00:22:04,240 --> 00:22:05,680 How are you, my bro? How's it going? 489 00:22:05,760 --> 00:22:08,400 It was really nice walking in with Ryan. 490 00:22:08,480 --> 00:22:09,920 It was just like this acknowledgement 491 00:22:10,000 --> 00:22:14,000 of, like, wow, we made it, and we're so glad we had each other, 492 00:22:14,080 --> 00:22:16,520 and there's no one else we would have rather done 493 00:22:16,560 --> 00:22:17,720 this experiment with. 494 00:22:17,800 --> 00:22:20,120 You know, if Ryan and I actually commit at Final Vows, 495 00:22:20,160 --> 00:22:22,120 we'll be at each other's graves. 496 00:22:22,200 --> 00:22:25,840 You know, like there's nothing that could possibly come between us. 497 00:22:29,240 --> 00:22:31,160 Did you guys go on that task? 498 00:22:31,200 --> 00:22:32,280 Yeah. 499 00:22:33,680 --> 00:22:35,920 Yeah. And you're still here together? 500 00:22:36,000 --> 00:22:37,040 Yeah. That's right. 501 00:22:37,120 --> 00:22:38,640 How the hell does this work? Yeah. 502 00:22:38,720 --> 00:22:40,320 Yeah. Like, it's just one of those things, 503 00:22:40,400 --> 00:22:41,840 where after all the shit we've been through... 504 00:22:41,880 --> 00:22:42,920 Yeah. 505 00:22:43,000 --> 00:22:45,000 You know, one, one little, one little meeting. 506 00:22:45,040 --> 00:22:46,440 One little encounter. 507 00:22:46,480 --> 00:22:47,360 Yeah. 508 00:22:47,440 --> 00:22:49,320 Um. Still got a ring on the finger. 509 00:22:49,400 --> 00:22:51,000 MEL: Wow. So... JOHN: Final test. 510 00:22:51,040 --> 00:22:52,200 This final test, 511 00:22:52,280 --> 00:22:55,680 this final task has brought Jacqui and Ryan closer. 512 00:22:56,560 --> 00:22:59,200 Hi! Hey! 513 00:23:00,120 --> 00:23:01,960 Oh, Beth and Teejay. 514 00:23:02,720 --> 00:23:03,920 Hello, hello. 515 00:23:04,000 --> 00:23:05,760 You look stunning. Thank you. 516 00:23:05,840 --> 00:23:10,840 MEL: Wow. That's two very separate people entering the room. 517 00:23:10,920 --> 00:23:12,960 I would not be surprised for Beth and Teejay 518 00:23:13,040 --> 00:23:16,480 to have chosen to meet their other matches. 519 00:23:16,560 --> 00:23:18,440 They have not been in a good place. 520 00:23:18,520 --> 00:23:20,280 Beth. Oh, wow. We're all here. 521 00:23:20,360 --> 00:23:23,080 What the hell's going on with you guys? 522 00:23:23,160 --> 00:23:25,440 The beginning of the week obviously was rough 523 00:23:25,520 --> 00:23:27,640 because obviously I wrote stay, he wrote leave. 524 00:23:27,720 --> 00:23:29,840 The delusional me was like, if I stay another week, 525 00:23:29,880 --> 00:23:30,800 maybe I'll change his mind. 526 00:23:30,880 --> 00:23:34,280 Um, and I don't even know how it turned so sour, 527 00:23:34,320 --> 00:23:36,640 but it just completely flipped. 528 00:23:37,760 --> 00:23:39,960 I don't un... I love Beth, 529 00:23:40,040 --> 00:23:42,840 but, like, why are you walking in with this man? 530 00:23:42,920 --> 00:23:45,000 Why are you walking in with this man? 531 00:23:45,080 --> 00:23:48,200 It makes me sad to think of our wedding, 532 00:23:48,240 --> 00:23:50,240 our honeymoon to where we are now. 533 00:23:50,320 --> 00:23:52,840 We've made some amazing memories, but it makes me sad. 534 00:23:55,040 --> 00:23:57,920 Babe, you are being used as a human shield. 535 00:23:58,600 --> 00:24:01,240 If this man is not being a good partner, 536 00:24:01,320 --> 00:24:03,200 if you have an issue, if you've been crying, 537 00:24:03,280 --> 00:24:06,240 if he has completely failed you, walk in by yourself 538 00:24:06,280 --> 00:24:07,840 and make a statement. 539 00:24:09,360 --> 00:24:10,680 Paul's in a bag of strife. 540 00:24:10,760 --> 00:24:15,360 Oh, mate. Well, I said to Rhi, if this was like his first stuff-up, 541 00:24:15,400 --> 00:24:16,640 then maybe. 542 00:24:16,720 --> 00:24:18,480 But like he's had, this is his third. 543 00:24:18,520 --> 00:24:19,560 Yeah. 544 00:24:19,600 --> 00:24:20,800 I'm like, mate. 545 00:24:22,640 --> 00:24:23,840 What's happened? 546 00:24:23,880 --> 00:24:25,360 Oh, no. 547 00:24:25,440 --> 00:24:28,080 Well, in baseball, if you have three strikes, what does that mean? 548 00:24:28,160 --> 00:24:30,200 Yeah, mate. He's... He's out of here. 549 00:24:30,240 --> 00:24:31,320 You're out. 550 00:24:38,200 --> 00:24:41,000 It's... It's weird coming on my own. 551 00:24:41,080 --> 00:24:43,960 I've always walked in, you know, with Carina, 552 00:24:44,000 --> 00:24:46,240 feeling strong, feeling united. 553 00:24:46,960 --> 00:24:50,480 We've had a lot of ups and downs, but we've always walked in strong. 554 00:24:51,960 --> 00:24:53,200 So, yeah. 555 00:24:54,520 --> 00:24:59,200 I really grew to be so close with Paul 556 00:24:59,240 --> 00:25:01,520 and it's lonely in the apartment. 557 00:25:01,560 --> 00:25:03,920 It's lonely doing this without him 558 00:25:03,960 --> 00:25:06,160 and I'm sure he's feeling the same. 559 00:25:06,240 --> 00:25:07,600 I would hope he was feeling the same. 560 00:25:10,040 --> 00:25:11,680 Yeah, it just doesn't feel right. 561 00:25:12,960 --> 00:25:15,920 It feels like something's missing. Someone's missing, obviously, so... 562 00:25:21,960 --> 00:25:24,880 I think this feeling right now that I'm feeling is just... 563 00:25:25,680 --> 00:25:27,080 Yeah, sadness, 564 00:25:27,160 --> 00:25:31,000 that like uncomfortableness and anxiety where I don't want 565 00:25:31,080 --> 00:25:36,000 to be going into situations like these by myself. 566 00:25:40,440 --> 00:25:43,520 I'm sad that I'm walking in without him. 567 00:25:43,560 --> 00:25:45,720 Especially our final dinner party. 568 00:25:45,800 --> 00:25:48,560 When everyone sees Paul and I walking in alone tonight, 569 00:25:48,640 --> 00:25:50,880 they're going to be absolutely shocked. 570 00:25:51,640 --> 00:25:56,480 But he's the one that put us in this position, not me. 571 00:26:00,600 --> 00:26:01,960 (GASPS) 572 00:26:02,040 --> 00:26:04,240 Oh! Oh, she's on her own. 573 00:26:05,960 --> 00:26:07,280 It's crazy. 574 00:26:11,000 --> 00:26:12,440 NARRATOR: Still to come... 575 00:26:12,520 --> 00:26:14,360 I guess we should start with elephant in the room. 576 00:26:14,400 --> 00:26:16,480 ..Paul faces the firing line. 577 00:26:16,560 --> 00:26:18,880 Just can't even fathom why you'd want to even do that 578 00:26:18,960 --> 00:26:21,120 or entertain it. I just don't understand it. 579 00:26:21,200 --> 00:26:22,200 Guys, I totally get it. She's incredible. 580 00:26:22,240 --> 00:26:23,040 I get it, I know. 581 00:26:23,120 --> 00:26:24,880 How can you not think of her? I know. 582 00:26:24,960 --> 00:26:27,320 If Jeff did something like this to me, 583 00:26:27,400 --> 00:26:30,680 I can't see any coming back from that, personally. 584 00:26:30,760 --> 00:26:34,480 A mistake repeated more than once is a decision, 585 00:26:34,560 --> 00:26:37,200 and he has decided to make these choices again and again. 586 00:26:43,520 --> 00:26:46,520 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 587 00:26:51,920 --> 00:26:53,200 Oh, hello! 588 00:26:53,280 --> 00:26:54,320 (GASPS) Oh... 589 00:26:54,360 --> 00:26:55,760 Oh, she's on her own. 590 00:26:56,880 --> 00:26:57,800 It's crazy. 591 00:26:59,040 --> 00:27:01,360 So, let's go, let's go. I need a, yeah. 592 00:27:01,400 --> 00:27:03,080 These are gorgeous, ladies. 593 00:27:03,120 --> 00:27:04,160 Thank you. 594 00:27:04,200 --> 00:27:05,400 Are you OK? 595 00:27:05,440 --> 00:27:06,800 Um... 596 00:27:06,840 --> 00:27:08,120 I'm OK. 597 00:27:08,200 --> 00:27:11,640 Yeah. I'm just trying to collect my dignity 598 00:27:11,720 --> 00:27:15,560 and hopefully it's not outside the window at the moment. 599 00:27:15,640 --> 00:27:17,920 No. This is not... This is... Yeah. 600 00:27:18,000 --> 00:27:19,840 No. I'm OK. This is not on you. 601 00:27:19,880 --> 00:27:20,800 Yeah. 602 00:27:20,840 --> 00:27:22,600 Have you spoken to Paul at all? 603 00:27:22,680 --> 00:27:25,480 He messaged me over the weekend three times. 604 00:27:25,520 --> 00:27:26,440 No call. 605 00:27:27,320 --> 00:27:28,120 Oh, no. 606 00:27:29,360 --> 00:27:31,920 Sounds like maybe Paul went on a date. 607 00:27:32,000 --> 00:27:35,800 I'm just trying to suppress the feelings and the emotions 608 00:27:35,880 --> 00:27:39,600 and, like, my way of showing how upset I am 609 00:27:39,640 --> 00:27:42,480 is just by putting on a face and... 610 00:27:42,520 --> 00:27:44,200 Yeah. Joking and laughing. 611 00:27:44,240 --> 00:27:45,520 Yeah. 612 00:27:45,560 --> 00:27:46,480 Yeah. 613 00:27:47,640 --> 00:27:51,160 I laugh and smile, but really, I'm... 614 00:27:51,240 --> 00:27:54,000 I'm actually cut and I'm disappointed, 615 00:27:54,040 --> 00:27:55,800 and I'm... I'm devastated. 616 00:27:55,880 --> 00:27:56,800 Babe. Yeah. 617 00:27:56,880 --> 00:27:58,400 That really sucks. I'm angry and not even a call. 618 00:27:59,560 --> 00:28:02,040 As it's, like, stewing and I'm processing it, 619 00:28:02,080 --> 00:28:03,480 I'm just, like, I'm... 620 00:28:03,520 --> 00:28:06,720 It makes me feel sick to my stomach. 621 00:28:06,800 --> 00:28:09,360 Like, everything that we have built together. 622 00:28:10,200 --> 00:28:12,160 It's out the window for me. 623 00:28:12,240 --> 00:28:13,920 What did he walk in - say when he walked into the house? 624 00:28:13,960 --> 00:28:16,040 He ran up to me. 625 00:28:16,120 --> 00:28:18,640 I was doing the dishes and he ran up to me 626 00:28:18,720 --> 00:28:20,840 and gave me the biggest hug and kiss and was like, 627 00:28:20,880 --> 00:28:22,960 "I've missed you so much." 628 00:28:23,040 --> 00:28:24,640 "It's like I just couldn't wait to see you." 629 00:28:26,040 --> 00:28:28,480 And I was like, I was like, "Paul." 630 00:28:28,560 --> 00:28:30,000 And I just, like, pulled away from him. 631 00:28:30,040 --> 00:28:30,960 And he goes, "But... 632 00:28:31,000 --> 00:28:32,600 "But like, I've missed you so much. 633 00:28:32,680 --> 00:28:33,720 "We were talking about you the whole time. 634 00:28:33,760 --> 00:28:35,520 "She just kept asking me questions, 635 00:28:35,600 --> 00:28:37,040 "and all I could do was talk about you." 636 00:28:37,120 --> 00:28:39,200 And I was like, "Not cool", and I just flipped. 637 00:28:41,640 --> 00:28:43,760 OK. Really did not see that coming. 638 00:28:43,840 --> 00:28:48,000 We had a couple here talking about how their values were aligned, 639 00:28:48,080 --> 00:28:50,800 how they were talking about having children in the future. 640 00:28:50,840 --> 00:28:52,360 They were committed 641 00:28:52,400 --> 00:28:56,040 and now, less than a few days later, 642 00:28:56,120 --> 00:28:58,000 he's off on a date with someone else. 643 00:28:59,280 --> 00:29:00,360 It's quite shocking. 644 00:29:00,440 --> 00:29:01,440 Yeah. Yeah. 645 00:29:02,440 --> 00:29:03,520 Have I not done enough? 646 00:29:03,600 --> 00:29:06,760 Like, have I not made or done anything... 647 00:29:06,840 --> 00:29:09,200 I definitely don't think that's the case at all. 648 00:29:10,160 --> 00:29:12,400 I'm just thinking about if he's got temptation 649 00:29:12,480 --> 00:29:14,840 in this experiment, what's going to happen on the outside world? 650 00:29:14,920 --> 00:29:17,400 Yeah. And that's what worries me the most. 651 00:29:18,240 --> 00:29:20,000 Like, are you kidding me? 652 00:29:20,080 --> 00:29:21,400 I feel like if this was the first time 653 00:29:21,480 --> 00:29:23,040 this has ever - he'd ever messed up... 654 00:29:23,120 --> 00:29:24,640 Yeah. ..you probably would've maybe 655 00:29:24,720 --> 00:29:26,720 like, been a little bit more softer about it. Yeah. 656 00:29:26,800 --> 00:29:28,640 They're not little, little mistakes. 657 00:29:28,680 --> 00:29:30,240 Like they're major. 658 00:29:30,960 --> 00:29:34,200 This big one has, like, hit alarms for me. 659 00:29:34,920 --> 00:29:39,280 It's made me question like, what is a soul mate? 660 00:29:39,320 --> 00:29:42,680 What is a partnership? Like... 661 00:29:42,760 --> 00:29:46,640 What is a long lasting relationship? 662 00:29:46,680 --> 00:29:48,560 What does that even look like? 663 00:29:48,640 --> 00:29:51,720 It's made me question so many things because I thought 664 00:29:51,760 --> 00:29:53,640 I had that with Paul. 665 00:29:53,720 --> 00:29:54,920 Did he give you a reason? Mm-hm. 666 00:29:54,960 --> 00:29:56,520 What was the reason? 667 00:29:56,600 --> 00:29:58,920 He was curious and he thought it would be funny. 668 00:30:00,360 --> 00:30:02,120 He used the word funny? 669 00:30:02,160 --> 00:30:03,680 I'm sorry? 670 00:30:03,720 --> 00:30:04,760 Paul... 671 00:30:04,800 --> 00:30:07,240 What are you playing at? 672 00:30:07,320 --> 00:30:12,800 You have Carina as your wife, and you want to entertain 673 00:30:12,880 --> 00:30:16,680 someone else because you're curious and think it'd be funny? 674 00:30:17,520 --> 00:30:19,360 What a (BLEEP) joke. Do you know what's funny now, bro? 675 00:30:19,440 --> 00:30:21,120 You've lost your (BLEEP) wife. That's what's funny. 676 00:30:21,160 --> 00:30:22,120 Joke's on you. 677 00:30:22,160 --> 00:30:23,560 Joke's on you. 678 00:30:23,640 --> 00:30:25,400 I'm sorry, but when he's got you. Yeah. 679 00:30:25,480 --> 00:30:27,440 Why would you need to be curious? That's exactly what I said. 680 00:30:27,520 --> 00:30:29,000 Why would you need to be curious? I was just like, 681 00:30:29,040 --> 00:30:30,560 what more do you want? 682 00:30:30,640 --> 00:30:31,640 Honestly. Babe. 683 00:30:31,720 --> 00:30:33,280 Yeah, yeah. Like, I'm sorry. 684 00:30:33,360 --> 00:30:35,920 And I'm sorry, to use the word curious and thought it'd be funny, 685 00:30:35,960 --> 00:30:37,400 like a joke. 686 00:30:37,480 --> 00:30:39,200 Do you think you guys will have a chat tonight? 687 00:30:39,280 --> 00:30:41,760 Or what's your - have you got a game plan? 688 00:30:41,800 --> 00:30:43,200 I don't, no. 689 00:30:43,920 --> 00:30:46,760 I feel like after everything that Carina has experienced 690 00:30:46,800 --> 00:30:48,320 over the past couple of days. 691 00:30:48,400 --> 00:30:51,040 Like, I know, you know, she hasn't really heard from Paul much 692 00:30:51,080 --> 00:30:52,880 apart from a few text messages. 693 00:30:52,960 --> 00:30:55,760 I felt like today was a great chance for Carina 694 00:30:55,840 --> 00:30:58,840 to really tell Paul exactly how she feels, 695 00:30:58,920 --> 00:31:00,800 and I'm really going to have Carina's back tonight 696 00:31:00,880 --> 00:31:03,520 and make sure that she feels heard and seen. 697 00:31:03,560 --> 00:31:04,680 It's... 698 00:31:05,800 --> 00:31:07,520 It's a bad spot to be in, man. 699 00:31:07,560 --> 00:31:08,760 I know, it's shocking. 700 00:31:10,000 --> 00:31:13,800 When they walked in on the last dinner party, 701 00:31:13,880 --> 00:31:15,520 Paul was sitting next to me and I said to him, 702 00:31:15,600 --> 00:31:17,120 "Mate, you look like you're in love, bro." 703 00:31:17,200 --> 00:31:19,200 Yeah. Like he looked so happy. 704 00:31:19,880 --> 00:31:21,040 And then this. 705 00:31:21,720 --> 00:31:24,840 In his head, he's thinking like it's not that big a deal. 706 00:31:26,000 --> 00:31:28,040 And then obviously now he realises it is a big deal. 707 00:31:34,880 --> 00:31:37,440 PAUL: It's just been an emotional last couple of days. 708 00:31:39,960 --> 00:31:41,680 I'm just feeling anxious. I'm... 709 00:31:41,720 --> 00:31:44,080 You know, I'm upset at myself. 710 00:31:45,760 --> 00:31:48,280 The whole bunch of emotions going through my head at the moment. 711 00:31:52,000 --> 00:31:54,280 Yeah. I just hope that she can hear me out tonight again. 712 00:31:58,520 --> 00:32:00,080 Yeah. Move past it. 713 00:32:23,360 --> 00:32:25,080 It's a tough spot that I'm in at the moment 714 00:32:25,160 --> 00:32:27,800 because there's so many times I can apologise for something. 715 00:32:27,840 --> 00:32:29,640 There's only so much I can say. 716 00:32:36,280 --> 00:32:40,200 Right now, I am going to keep apologising as much as I need to. 717 00:32:41,680 --> 00:32:43,520 But she also needs to be receptive. 718 00:32:45,560 --> 00:32:49,120 I'm hoping that she is going to be willing to move past that, 719 00:32:49,200 --> 00:32:53,360 because if she were to decide to throw this relationship 720 00:32:53,400 --> 00:32:54,680 after three months 721 00:32:54,760 --> 00:32:56,280 when we've actually had an amazing time 722 00:32:56,360 --> 00:32:59,080 the majority of the time, yeah, I'll be a little bit upset. 723 00:33:00,560 --> 00:33:02,600 ADRIAN: I mean, knowing that now, you know your final decision 724 00:33:02,640 --> 00:33:04,000 coming final vows. 725 00:33:04,040 --> 00:33:07,320 (ROOM FALLS SILENT) 726 00:33:09,040 --> 00:33:11,600 (DARK SOUNDTRACK) 727 00:33:14,520 --> 00:33:16,520 Can I just quickly ask, did you go on your date? 728 00:33:18,600 --> 00:33:20,120 This is not a group that is receiving him 729 00:33:20,160 --> 00:33:22,800 with any enthusiasm whatsoever. 730 00:33:26,640 --> 00:33:27,760 You dressed for a funeral? 731 00:33:27,800 --> 00:33:29,440 Oh, yeah. Yeah. Sort of. 732 00:33:29,520 --> 00:33:30,920 Yeah, I think you're dressed for your own. 733 00:33:30,960 --> 00:33:32,320 (LAUGHTER) 734 00:33:32,360 --> 00:33:33,560 Yes, I have. 735 00:33:33,600 --> 00:33:34,960 What's that? No? 736 00:33:36,200 --> 00:33:37,960 I'm definitely like... 737 00:33:38,000 --> 00:33:41,000 (TENSE SOUNDTRACK) 738 00:33:42,240 --> 00:33:43,280 (BLEEP) 739 00:33:48,280 --> 00:33:50,400 ..to just have a chat with her, to reassure her, 740 00:33:50,480 --> 00:33:52,440 to tell her how much I want this relationship to continue 741 00:33:52,480 --> 00:33:54,120 and to work on the outside, 742 00:33:54,200 --> 00:33:56,440 and I really hope so with all my heart. 743 00:34:03,080 --> 00:34:04,680 Can I... Can I talk to you for a second? 744 00:34:08,440 --> 00:34:11,080 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 745 00:34:11,880 --> 00:34:13,120 (GLASS DINGS) 746 00:34:13,160 --> 00:34:14,280 Dinner is served. 747 00:34:30,960 --> 00:34:32,280 Yay! Last one! 748 00:34:33,600 --> 00:34:35,000 How exciting. 749 00:34:37,520 --> 00:34:39,520 Hello, hello. 750 00:34:39,600 --> 00:34:42,760 This is indeed the final dinner party... 751 00:34:42,840 --> 00:34:44,120 It is. ..for this group. 752 00:34:44,160 --> 00:34:45,280 Hey! (LAUGHS) 753 00:34:46,040 --> 00:34:47,240 DAVE: Hey, can I have one of them? 754 00:34:47,320 --> 00:34:50,600 This is the last time before going to Final Vows 755 00:34:50,680 --> 00:34:52,560 that they'll get to have this kind of interaction. 756 00:34:53,560 --> 00:34:55,920 You can sense the excitement in the room. 757 00:34:55,960 --> 00:34:57,360 Yeah. 758 00:34:57,400 --> 00:34:58,560 Thanks, mate. 759 00:34:58,600 --> 00:34:59,800 I'm loving this. 760 00:34:59,880 --> 00:35:02,760 JOHN: And it is, no doubt, a very shared experience. 761 00:35:02,840 --> 00:35:04,240 Oh, yeah. It's unique. 762 00:35:04,320 --> 00:35:06,560 Holy moly. Last dinner party, you guys. 763 00:35:06,600 --> 00:35:07,960 I know. What the hell? 764 00:35:08,040 --> 00:35:09,480 ADRIAN: We gonna do a cheers to the last dinner party? 765 00:35:09,520 --> 00:35:10,800 Yeah. Has everyone got a drink? 766 00:35:10,880 --> 00:35:12,760 There really is a very deep bond, I think, 767 00:35:12,840 --> 00:35:15,240 between a lot of the people within the experiment. 768 00:35:15,320 --> 00:35:19,400 I want to say it's been, like, such a wild ride. 769 00:35:19,480 --> 00:35:22,680 Honestly, I'm so glad to have shared this experience with you guys. 770 00:35:22,720 --> 00:35:23,960 I feel like we've all learned a lot. 771 00:35:24,040 --> 00:35:25,520 We've laughed, we've cried... (LAUGHS) 772 00:35:25,560 --> 00:35:27,520 ..but it's been amazing. 773 00:35:27,560 --> 00:35:30,440 (OVERLAPPING CHEERS AND LAUGHTER) 774 00:35:33,920 --> 00:35:35,320 JOHN: And I think also what we see tonight, 775 00:35:35,400 --> 00:35:38,360 there's a finality to it all. Yeah. 776 00:35:44,400 --> 00:35:46,960 (HAUNTING SOUNDTRACK) 777 00:35:51,520 --> 00:35:55,480 CARINA: I just want to, like, run away from the table 778 00:35:55,520 --> 00:35:58,320 and I don't want to sit next to him. 779 00:36:02,040 --> 00:36:04,640 I want to pick my plate up and move next to Rhi and Jeff. 780 00:36:05,520 --> 00:36:07,200 That's honestly what I want to do. 781 00:36:18,000 --> 00:36:19,800 Paul knows he's (BLEEP) up. 782 00:36:19,840 --> 00:36:21,000 You can see it on his face. 783 00:36:21,080 --> 00:36:23,320 Last week, Paul was saying that, you know, 784 00:36:23,400 --> 00:36:24,960 they're looking at moving in together. 785 00:36:25,040 --> 00:36:27,920 After the commitment ceremony that him and Carina just had, 786 00:36:28,000 --> 00:36:30,960 after homestays, for him to go on the date, 787 00:36:31,000 --> 00:36:32,000 it's insane. 788 00:36:33,160 --> 00:36:34,360 It's going to be interesting to see 789 00:36:34,400 --> 00:36:35,480 what the future holds for them. 790 00:36:35,560 --> 00:36:37,280 Does she see herself getting past this? 791 00:36:37,320 --> 00:36:38,520 Is this the end for them? 792 00:36:38,560 --> 00:36:39,480 Can she forgive him? 793 00:36:39,520 --> 00:36:41,280 Can she see his perspective? 794 00:36:42,280 --> 00:36:45,360 Well, I guess we should start with the elephant in the room. 795 00:36:45,440 --> 00:36:47,760 Um, walking in separately is a pretty big statement 796 00:36:47,840 --> 00:36:51,560 on the last dinner party, and we want to know what's going on. 797 00:36:58,400 --> 00:36:59,960 Do you want me to start? Or do you want to go... 798 00:37:00,000 --> 00:37:01,200 You can go first. 799 00:37:09,480 --> 00:37:11,360 Well, look, obviously, you know, we all - 800 00:37:11,400 --> 00:37:12,920 we've all had the same task. 801 00:37:12,960 --> 00:37:15,520 Um, I... 802 00:37:24,880 --> 00:37:27,800 I'm trying to find the right way to start that. 803 00:37:29,680 --> 00:37:32,280 I just really want to make it clear, guys... 804 00:37:34,000 --> 00:37:36,520 When I... When I took the decision to go... 805 00:37:37,520 --> 00:37:39,760 There was no... I didn't have any second thoughts. 806 00:37:39,840 --> 00:37:41,840 I didn't have, like - it's - I was genuinely really happy 807 00:37:41,920 --> 00:37:43,400 with my relationship, I swear to god, 808 00:37:43,480 --> 00:37:47,000 and it was just purely, I was just being stupidly curious. 809 00:37:50,800 --> 00:37:51,800 When I got to the location, 810 00:37:51,880 --> 00:37:54,480 when I was waiting for this person to rock up, 811 00:37:54,560 --> 00:37:57,440 I genuinely started to realise like that I was doing something wrong. 812 00:38:00,200 --> 00:38:01,520 When you got there, that's when you thought 813 00:38:01,600 --> 00:38:02,440 it was doing something wrong? Yeah. 814 00:38:05,880 --> 00:38:07,960 Yeah, when I got there, I just, I started realising 815 00:38:08,040 --> 00:38:09,680 I'm like, what the (BLEEP) am I even doing here? 816 00:38:09,720 --> 00:38:10,880 Like, this is just so wrong. 817 00:38:12,160 --> 00:38:15,360 I wasn't thinking, I just didn't think, 818 00:38:15,440 --> 00:38:19,120 which is, again, like the reason why, like, as I'm, you know, 819 00:38:19,200 --> 00:38:22,000 getting there to the location, when I was there, I was like... 820 00:38:22,080 --> 00:38:24,040 Like what the (BLEEP)? Like, why are you even here? 821 00:38:27,840 --> 00:38:29,480 BETH: You've got the most amazing woman by your side. 822 00:38:29,560 --> 00:38:31,240 I just can't even fathom why you'd want to even do that 823 00:38:31,280 --> 00:38:32,200 or entertain it. 824 00:38:32,240 --> 00:38:33,760 I just don't (BLEEP) understand it. 825 00:38:33,800 --> 00:38:35,040 She is incredible. 826 00:38:35,120 --> 00:38:37,760 I get it, I know. It's... I know. It makes no (BLEEP) sense. 827 00:38:39,280 --> 00:38:41,960 No. Red flag, red flag. 828 00:38:42,000 --> 00:38:43,160 I really do support Carina 829 00:38:43,240 --> 00:38:47,520 and I feel like if I was Carina and my partner went on a date, 830 00:38:47,560 --> 00:38:48,880 I'd be (BLEEP) livid. 831 00:38:48,960 --> 00:38:50,800 I'd have thrown his shit out the door. 832 00:38:50,840 --> 00:38:51,760 Yeah. 833 00:38:53,400 --> 00:38:55,040 TEEJAY: I think why it's confusing a lot for us, too, 834 00:38:55,120 --> 00:38:56,440 is because on the commitment ceremony couch, 835 00:38:56,520 --> 00:38:58,800 you know, you mentioned you want Carina to meet your parents, 836 00:38:58,880 --> 00:39:00,680 and you guys are thinking about moving in together 837 00:39:00,760 --> 00:39:01,640 and these kinds of things... I know. 838 00:39:01,720 --> 00:39:04,160 ..and, mate, like, I think, like, other people, 839 00:39:04,240 --> 00:39:05,720 I could've bet my life that it wouldn't have happened. 840 00:39:05,760 --> 00:39:06,720 That's why it's confusing. 841 00:39:06,760 --> 00:39:07,880 I was just... 842 00:39:07,960 --> 00:39:09,840 I was, I know, I was isolating in that room 843 00:39:09,920 --> 00:39:12,720 and then just I honestly like it's like I had a bloody donkey brain 844 00:39:12,800 --> 00:39:14,680 for a second. It's like I wasn't thinking straight. 845 00:39:14,720 --> 00:39:16,360 It is not an excuse. 846 00:39:16,440 --> 00:39:19,280 That's how I was think... I'm not, I'm not trying to justify myself. 847 00:39:19,360 --> 00:39:21,120 I'm just saying that this is how I was feeling 848 00:39:21,160 --> 00:39:22,240 at the moment when I... 849 00:39:22,320 --> 00:39:23,880 That's what I was thinking when I took this decision. 850 00:39:24,640 --> 00:39:26,280 DAVE: After the last task with the feedback week, 851 00:39:26,360 --> 00:39:29,840 and you seen how hurt she was, how can you not think of her? 852 00:39:29,920 --> 00:39:32,880 I know, and this is the whole reason why I'm so upset at myself. 853 00:39:32,960 --> 00:39:35,960 Because again, like I said, I wasn't considering her feelings 854 00:39:36,040 --> 00:39:37,680 when I took that decision and I'm just... Yeah. 855 00:39:38,920 --> 00:39:41,720 How can you not think of Carina? 856 00:39:41,800 --> 00:39:45,360 She's always maintained those boundaries very strictly 857 00:39:45,400 --> 00:39:46,480 in the relationship. 858 00:39:46,520 --> 00:39:47,840 How could you not? 859 00:39:48,880 --> 00:39:51,280 RHI: The sleeping arrangements with everybody 860 00:39:51,360 --> 00:39:53,280 and how uncomfortable she felt, even... 861 00:39:53,360 --> 00:39:55,040 I get it. And then, like on feedback week, 862 00:39:55,120 --> 00:39:56,480 when you did go behind her back again 863 00:39:56,560 --> 00:39:58,160 and said stuff that she said in confidence, 864 00:39:58,240 --> 00:40:00,960 like, why don't you think that you're thinking of these things 865 00:40:01,000 --> 00:40:02,440 at these moments? Like... 866 00:40:02,520 --> 00:40:04,520 Guys, I know, I totally, I totally get it. 867 00:40:07,600 --> 00:40:11,000 It just, yeah, it just, it was just like just negative things 868 00:40:11,040 --> 00:40:12,120 after negative things. 869 00:40:12,160 --> 00:40:13,120 Bang, bang, bang. 870 00:40:13,200 --> 00:40:14,680 And I was just like, I was just sitting there 871 00:40:14,720 --> 00:40:16,360 thinking, OK, holy (BLEEP). 872 00:40:16,440 --> 00:40:20,440 Like, it just kind of felt like we were just only focusing 873 00:40:20,520 --> 00:40:22,840 on the on the bad, on the wrong tonight. 874 00:40:23,640 --> 00:40:27,720 Um, and on all the things that I did wrong and... 875 00:40:27,800 --> 00:40:30,000 Yeah, it kind of just feels like that all the good things 876 00:40:30,080 --> 00:40:33,520 that I've done was just... Or has been almost forgotten. 877 00:40:33,560 --> 00:40:34,360 It's like... 878 00:40:38,840 --> 00:40:40,800 How was the date, Paul? How was the date? 879 00:40:40,880 --> 00:40:42,400 It was... Honestly... No, I'm serious. 880 00:40:42,440 --> 00:40:43,680 I actually want to know, genuinely. 881 00:40:43,760 --> 00:40:46,160 No, but I'll tell you guys, it was the most uncomfortable, 882 00:40:46,200 --> 00:40:48,320 most awkward interaction ever. 883 00:40:48,360 --> 00:40:49,200 I was being polite. 884 00:40:49,280 --> 00:40:50,800 I was just asking the bare minimum, 885 00:40:50,840 --> 00:40:52,000 the most basic question. 886 00:40:55,240 --> 00:40:56,320 The entire date, 887 00:40:56,400 --> 00:40:57,840 I actually was talking about Carina the whole time, 888 00:40:57,920 --> 00:40:59,600 to the point where this poor woman was like, "Why are you here?" 889 00:40:59,680 --> 00:41:00,880 And I said to her... (LAUGHS) 890 00:41:00,960 --> 00:41:03,160 .."In all honesty, I don't know. I should not be here." 891 00:41:03,200 --> 00:41:04,560 And honestly, it was so awkward. 892 00:41:04,600 --> 00:41:05,760 I just wanted to run away. 893 00:41:07,440 --> 00:41:10,480 Even when you got home, when Carina explained to Rhi and myself 894 00:41:10,560 --> 00:41:13,040 when you got home, your reaction was like, bizarre to me. 895 00:41:13,120 --> 00:41:15,320 Like, you came in, you're kissing her and saying, 896 00:41:15,400 --> 00:41:17,080 "Oh, I went on the date. But it was like..." 897 00:41:17,160 --> 00:41:18,760 No, no, no. Sorry, I'll explain that. 898 00:41:18,800 --> 00:41:20,160 When I got back to the apartment, 899 00:41:20,240 --> 00:41:22,240 I was genuinely so happy to see her face 900 00:41:22,320 --> 00:41:24,720 and I literally gave her the biggest hug and the biggest kiss. 901 00:41:24,760 --> 00:41:26,240 I was feeling so awkward 902 00:41:26,320 --> 00:41:28,320 because obviously I was about to say I went on that date. 903 00:41:28,400 --> 00:41:30,400 I was telling her, obviously everything 904 00:41:30,480 --> 00:41:31,840 I've just told you guys, I told Carina 905 00:41:31,920 --> 00:41:33,280 like how awkward it was and everything 906 00:41:33,320 --> 00:41:34,520 and blah, blah, blah, right? 907 00:41:35,440 --> 00:41:36,720 And I was really doing my best 908 00:41:36,800 --> 00:41:38,440 to try to give her as much reassurance, telling her, 909 00:41:38,520 --> 00:41:40,200 like how much I still value our relationship, 910 00:41:40,280 --> 00:41:42,640 how much I liked her, how much I still want this to continue, 911 00:41:42,720 --> 00:41:44,000 and I understand she was so upset, 912 00:41:44,040 --> 00:41:45,760 she couldn't hear anything else. 913 00:41:51,120 --> 00:41:53,320 RYAN: Was it just curiosity? It was, yeah, it was... 914 00:41:53,400 --> 00:41:55,640 Did you need clarity? Did you need a different perspective? 915 00:41:55,720 --> 00:41:57,040 Well, like, no, I didn't I didn't need like... 916 00:41:57,120 --> 00:41:59,200 Honestly, genuinely, I know it's so hard to believe 917 00:41:59,280 --> 00:42:02,280 because I was in such a good place, we were in such a good place. 918 00:42:02,320 --> 00:42:03,720 I was so happy with my relationship 919 00:42:03,800 --> 00:42:05,560 with myself, with Carina, with everything. 920 00:42:05,600 --> 00:42:06,440 Clearly not. 921 00:42:06,520 --> 00:42:07,880 JEFF: But were you truly happy with your relationship? 922 00:42:07,920 --> 00:42:08,720 Clearly not. 923 00:42:08,800 --> 00:42:10,760 But like if you're truly happy with your relationship, 924 00:42:10,800 --> 00:42:11,720 you wouldn't have gone on the date. 925 00:42:17,000 --> 00:42:20,640 JOHN: The group is holding him to account. 926 00:42:20,720 --> 00:42:23,560 And it's almost like no matter what he says tonight, 927 00:42:23,600 --> 00:42:24,840 it's not going to land. 928 00:42:25,760 --> 00:42:27,480 I mean, looking at Carina now... 929 00:42:27,560 --> 00:42:30,320 ALESSANDRA: She looks sad. MEL: Yeah, she does. 930 00:42:31,000 --> 00:42:33,240 I want to know what Carina actually thinks. 931 00:42:36,240 --> 00:42:38,000 Guys, guys, guys, can Carina speak? 932 00:42:38,920 --> 00:42:40,120 How do you feel, babe? 933 00:42:50,920 --> 00:42:52,880 Guys, guys, guys, guys, guys! 934 00:42:52,920 --> 00:42:54,440 Can Carina speak? 935 00:42:56,640 --> 00:42:57,840 How do you feel, babe? 936 00:43:01,880 --> 00:43:03,520 Yeah. Look, there's... 937 00:43:04,440 --> 00:43:07,040 I didn't see this one coming whatsoever. 938 00:43:09,080 --> 00:43:12,960 I feel like now there's a massive question mark 939 00:43:13,000 --> 00:43:14,400 in our relationship. 940 00:43:15,280 --> 00:43:17,160 Um, yeah. 941 00:43:17,240 --> 00:43:20,280 I can't really look at you the same way. 942 00:43:24,200 --> 00:43:28,600 I don't think you were considering my feelings in any way. 943 00:43:30,640 --> 00:43:32,000 The biggest thing, 944 00:43:32,080 --> 00:43:36,680 not only have you disrespected me, but you've disrespected yourself 945 00:43:36,760 --> 00:43:40,840 and my family, and family's everything to me, 946 00:43:40,920 --> 00:43:43,360 and I can't believe that you didn't even consider that. 947 00:43:43,440 --> 00:43:46,440 Like, you were just so shut off from considering your partner, 948 00:43:46,520 --> 00:43:50,440 your wife, and then everything else that you just went through 949 00:43:50,480 --> 00:43:51,640 the week before. 950 00:43:51,720 --> 00:43:55,520 You just you jumped at the idea and that's what worries me. 951 00:43:55,600 --> 00:43:58,200 If it's so easy to do that in this experiment, 952 00:43:58,280 --> 00:44:00,040 what's going to happen on the outside world 953 00:44:00,080 --> 00:44:01,760 when you do get attention? 954 00:44:03,800 --> 00:44:06,400 Are you going to go the extra mile if you're interested in the girl 955 00:44:06,480 --> 00:44:08,520 because she's attractive and she's your... 956 00:44:08,600 --> 00:44:10,760 I understand that this is what you think, 957 00:44:10,840 --> 00:44:13,080 that this could potentially happen on the outside. 958 00:44:13,160 --> 00:44:16,680 The reassurance that I can give you right now is... 959 00:44:17,560 --> 00:44:20,360 So, first of all, obviously this - I took that as a task 960 00:44:20,400 --> 00:44:22,080 and I didn't think, once again. 961 00:44:22,160 --> 00:44:25,600 I would have... I would have never gone out of my way 962 00:44:25,640 --> 00:44:27,720 to sneak out, go see someone else. 963 00:44:29,240 --> 00:44:31,000 I just want you to know that I don't have that in me. 964 00:44:31,040 --> 00:44:32,040 I'm not... 965 00:44:32,120 --> 00:44:34,160 I'm not the kind of guy who has this capability 966 00:44:34,200 --> 00:44:37,000 of sneaking out behind your back 967 00:44:37,080 --> 00:44:39,600 to go meet with other people and do wrong by you 968 00:44:39,640 --> 00:44:40,520 behind your back. 969 00:44:42,000 --> 00:44:43,440 You did go meet with someone else. 970 00:44:43,520 --> 00:44:45,640 No, no, I know, no, I know, but like, it's like, 971 00:44:45,720 --> 00:44:47,680 like I didn't organise - what I'm, what I'm just... 972 00:44:47,760 --> 00:44:49,520 What I'm just trying to say is like I didn't organise... 973 00:44:49,600 --> 00:44:51,800 Yeah, you didn't organise it. So, just say you're a bar, right? 974 00:44:51,880 --> 00:44:53,480 And you say you don't go out of your way, 975 00:44:53,520 --> 00:44:54,680 but what if there's an opportunity 976 00:44:54,720 --> 00:44:55,640 and a girl comes up to you? 977 00:44:55,680 --> 00:44:56,880 That's not going out of your way. 978 00:44:56,960 --> 00:44:58,600 I know, but like... That's presented to you. 979 00:44:58,680 --> 00:44:59,680 Absolutely. Yeah. So... 980 00:45:01,520 --> 00:45:03,120 ALESSANDRA: And he didn't have to go. 981 00:45:03,200 --> 00:45:04,400 There was the choice to go. Yes. 982 00:45:04,440 --> 00:45:06,040 There was to chose to not go. 983 00:45:08,160 --> 00:45:10,600 The fact that you went, that is not something 984 00:45:10,680 --> 00:45:13,480 that's going to be in any way security for her 985 00:45:13,520 --> 00:45:14,600 in the relationship. 986 00:45:17,960 --> 00:45:20,520 I simply wasn't considering Carina's feelings. 987 00:45:22,120 --> 00:45:24,480 But you even got upset with the experts, Paul, 988 00:45:24,560 --> 00:45:26,920 about saying that you lack emotional intelligence. 989 00:45:27,000 --> 00:45:29,720 That is exactly another example of you lacking 990 00:45:29,760 --> 00:45:31,200 emotional intelligence. 991 00:45:31,280 --> 00:45:33,800 Like, you weren't considering how I would feel, 992 00:45:33,880 --> 00:45:36,680 like the repercussions of your actions. 993 00:45:36,760 --> 00:45:38,880 But I'm just saying, like, obviously I'm not just going 994 00:45:38,960 --> 00:45:40,800 to brush off this situation, like... No, of course. 995 00:45:40,880 --> 00:45:42,880 this is real big deal for me and... And I don't expect you to. I get it. 996 00:45:42,960 --> 00:45:44,520 I know. ..you giving me the bare minimum. 997 00:45:45,480 --> 00:45:50,000 I just thought that maybe Carina was going to be 998 00:45:50,080 --> 00:45:52,320 a little bit more, just a bit more receptive. 999 00:45:53,360 --> 00:45:55,080 She is still quite upset. 1000 00:45:55,120 --> 00:45:56,560 She is still in that... 1001 00:45:58,360 --> 00:46:00,000 ..in that funny, weird head-space. 1002 00:46:00,080 --> 00:46:01,440 You know, she's still, she's still... 1003 00:46:01,520 --> 00:46:03,760 Yeah, she's still really questioning the relationship. 1004 00:46:03,840 --> 00:46:08,240 She's still questioning my sincerity, and so... 1005 00:46:08,320 --> 00:46:11,920 Yeah, I just need to... I just need, yeah, I need to do everything 1006 00:46:12,000 --> 00:46:14,520 to reconnect with her and to regain her trust. 1007 00:46:14,600 --> 00:46:17,960 Paul, can I just say, the reason this pisses me off so much, 1008 00:46:18,040 --> 00:46:19,520 she has stood by you through (BLEEP) everything 1009 00:46:19,600 --> 00:46:21,440 in this experiment and as soon as you had the opportunity 1010 00:46:21,520 --> 00:46:23,840 to jump ship, you (BLEEP) did it and it's really (BLEEP) rude. 1011 00:46:23,920 --> 00:46:25,200 I can't believe you've done that to her. 1012 00:46:25,240 --> 00:46:26,560 You've hurt her so (BLEEP) much. 1013 00:46:27,360 --> 00:46:28,400 I know. 1014 00:46:29,000 --> 00:46:32,360 And we thought that as a couple they had worked so hard to repair... 1015 00:46:32,440 --> 00:46:34,200 Yes. ..from some of their early troubles, 1016 00:46:34,280 --> 00:46:35,520 and there was forgiveness in the mix and... 1017 00:46:35,560 --> 00:46:36,480 ALESSANDRA: Yeah. 1018 00:46:36,560 --> 00:46:38,560 This is a woman who has stood by his side. 1019 00:46:38,640 --> 00:46:43,080 JOHN: She may have got to her tipping point. 1020 00:46:43,160 --> 00:46:46,080 Maybe he got overly confident because she has been so steady. 1021 00:46:47,160 --> 00:46:50,080 Yeah. I just, again, like I just... I just regret... I just regret 1022 00:46:50,120 --> 00:46:51,480 so much taking that decision. 1023 00:46:51,520 --> 00:46:53,160 I've just shot myself in the foot. 1024 00:46:53,200 --> 00:46:54,880 I've ruined my entire relationship. 1025 00:46:54,920 --> 00:46:56,640 I've just... I've just - it's... 1026 00:46:57,200 --> 00:46:58,600 RHI: What's really disappointing, 1027 00:46:58,680 --> 00:47:01,680 and I feel like if Jeff did something like this to me, 1028 00:47:01,760 --> 00:47:04,880 I can't see any coming back from that, personally. 1029 00:47:04,960 --> 00:47:10,040 For me, it would take me so long to get over something like this, 1030 00:47:10,080 --> 00:47:11,360 if at all, 1031 00:47:11,440 --> 00:47:14,080 and I think just because of the other couple of hiccups 1032 00:47:14,160 --> 00:47:17,800 that you've had, like it's just put you, both of you, 1033 00:47:17,840 --> 00:47:19,560 in such an awful position. 1034 00:47:22,560 --> 00:47:24,960 Like I said, I wasn't considering how you were going to feel 1035 00:47:25,000 --> 00:47:26,440 and this is... this is what I'm... 1036 00:47:26,520 --> 00:47:28,160 this is what I'm regretting right now, 1037 00:47:28,240 --> 00:47:32,000 and I'm so sorry for, again, putting you in that situation. 1038 00:47:33,680 --> 00:47:35,760 Carina's a very forgiving person, 1039 00:47:35,840 --> 00:47:37,720 but if Carina doesn't move on from it, 1040 00:47:37,760 --> 00:47:39,000 I absolutely understand why. 1041 00:47:39,080 --> 00:47:40,920 It'd be a very hard thing to move on from 1042 00:47:41,000 --> 00:47:43,000 when there's been other issues along the way 1043 00:47:43,040 --> 00:47:44,320 that have betrayed her trust. 1044 00:47:44,400 --> 00:47:47,120 And I'm sorry for making you question yourself 1045 00:47:47,200 --> 00:47:49,800 and really question the whole relationship and my sincerity 1046 00:47:49,840 --> 00:47:51,160 and everything else. 1047 00:47:51,200 --> 00:47:55,200 I genuinely don't know why I did it. 1048 00:47:56,520 --> 00:47:57,760 There's no ifs or buts about it. 1049 00:47:57,840 --> 00:48:01,360 He's betrayed Carina's trust time and time again, 1050 00:48:01,440 --> 00:48:04,160 and there's going to be a lot of making up to do 1051 00:48:04,200 --> 00:48:05,720 if they ever come back from that, 1052 00:48:05,760 --> 00:48:07,640 if she accepts that. 1053 00:48:09,640 --> 00:48:11,440 There'd have to be a lot of ground to make up 1054 00:48:11,520 --> 00:48:13,920 in order for them to come back from it right now, for sure. 1055 00:48:16,240 --> 00:48:17,880 I'm actually pissed off at myself even 1056 00:48:17,960 --> 00:48:19,000 because I'm like, that's not me. 1057 00:48:19,040 --> 00:48:20,240 That's not who you are. 1058 00:48:20,320 --> 00:48:22,120 Like, normally you think things through, you know? 1059 00:48:22,160 --> 00:48:23,840 So, yeah. 1060 00:48:23,880 --> 00:48:25,600 Again, like I'm... 1061 00:48:25,640 --> 00:48:26,760 Yeah, sorry. 1062 00:48:27,320 --> 00:48:29,800 After what has happened with Paul and Carina 1063 00:48:29,880 --> 00:48:32,320 over the past three months, I couldn't forgive Paul. 1064 00:48:33,040 --> 00:48:34,960 And I hope she doesn't forgive Paul, 1065 00:48:35,040 --> 00:48:37,960 because I feel like a mistake repeated more than once 1066 00:48:38,000 --> 00:48:39,000 is a decision 1067 00:48:39,080 --> 00:48:41,720 and he has decided to make these choices again and again. 1068 00:48:42,800 --> 00:48:44,200 To me, that's unforgivable. 1069 00:48:45,320 --> 00:48:46,760 Again, like when I took the decision, 1070 00:48:46,840 --> 00:48:49,000 I was just being so silly, I didn't think, 1071 00:48:49,080 --> 00:48:51,960 and again, I wasn't considering how you were going to feel, 1072 00:48:52,000 --> 00:48:53,400 and I'm so sorry for that, 1073 00:48:53,440 --> 00:48:55,960 and I genuinely regret that so much, 1074 00:48:56,040 --> 00:48:57,920 and I'm hating that I'm putting you in this position. 1075 00:48:57,960 --> 00:48:59,200 Like, seriously. 1076 00:49:01,080 --> 00:49:04,560 I just hope that you're willing to move past that. 1077 00:49:19,160 --> 00:49:22,560 ..so silly, I didn't think and again, I wasn't considering 1078 00:49:22,640 --> 00:49:24,880 how you were going to feel, and that I'm so sorry for that, 1079 00:49:24,920 --> 00:49:27,680 and I genuinely regret that so much, 1080 00:49:27,760 --> 00:49:29,400 and I'm hating that I'm putting you in this position. 1081 00:49:29,440 --> 00:49:30,240 Like, seriously. 1082 00:49:32,880 --> 00:49:36,480 I just hope that you're willing to move past that. 1083 00:49:41,440 --> 00:49:42,360 Sorry. 1084 00:49:44,120 --> 00:49:46,520 In all my previous relationships in my entire life, 1085 00:49:46,560 --> 00:49:48,160 I've never cheated on anyone. 1086 00:49:48,240 --> 00:49:51,080 I'm seriously hating myself for what I've done. 1087 00:49:51,120 --> 00:49:53,000 I'm hating myself. 1088 00:49:53,080 --> 00:49:55,560 I've never sneaked out behind any of my partners' backs 1089 00:49:55,600 --> 00:49:56,960 to do anything dodgy. 1090 00:49:57,040 --> 00:49:59,400 I've apologised to Carina multiple times. 1091 00:49:59,480 --> 00:50:02,560 I want to apologise to you again in front of everyone here. 1092 00:50:03,360 --> 00:50:05,000 I was being completely oblivious. 1093 00:50:05,040 --> 00:50:06,600 I didn't think. I wasn't... 1094 00:50:07,360 --> 00:50:09,400 Did you read that part to Awhina? 1095 00:50:09,440 --> 00:50:11,600 Yeah, I read it like that. 1096 00:50:13,120 --> 00:50:14,440 I'm sorry. 1097 00:50:14,520 --> 00:50:16,040 Sorry for putting you in that situation 1098 00:50:16,120 --> 00:50:18,680 and for making you question yourself. 1099 00:50:18,720 --> 00:50:20,480 I'm actually embarrassed. 1100 00:50:20,520 --> 00:50:22,040 And I'm sorry. 1101 00:50:22,120 --> 00:50:26,560 I want to apologise if I've hurt you or if you felt attacked. 1102 00:50:26,600 --> 00:50:28,000 It's because I care. 1103 00:50:29,320 --> 00:50:30,160 But do you hear what I'm saying? 1104 00:50:30,240 --> 00:50:31,720 Like when I say, like, it just made me feel... 1105 00:50:31,800 --> 00:50:33,600 Oh, I feel sick. Babe. 1106 00:50:33,680 --> 00:50:35,280 Oh, I know. I'm sorry, babe. I just want to... 1107 00:50:35,320 --> 00:50:36,200 Come here. 1108 00:50:39,360 --> 00:50:40,640 It's not enough. 1109 00:50:48,920 --> 00:50:50,280 It's not good enough. 1110 00:50:51,000 --> 00:50:54,920 Continuously apologising and saying sorry is not enough. 1111 00:50:56,160 --> 00:50:58,920 You're not even giving me any form of validation. 1112 00:50:59,000 --> 00:51:02,000 Like, you could have picked up the phone and you chose not to. 1113 00:51:02,080 --> 00:51:03,280 You didn't call me. You called the boys 1114 00:51:03,360 --> 00:51:05,440 and you obviously got reassurance from the boys. 1115 00:51:05,520 --> 00:51:07,040 But you didn't call me. Carina... 1116 00:51:07,080 --> 00:51:08,200 Let her finish. 1117 00:51:08,240 --> 00:51:10,840 No, no, you didn't call me. 1118 00:51:10,880 --> 00:51:13,280 We're in the same apartment complex. 1119 00:51:13,360 --> 00:51:15,680 It would make me realise, OK, maybe he actually cares for me 1120 00:51:15,720 --> 00:51:17,080 and he wants to fight for me, 1121 00:51:17,160 --> 00:51:21,000 and he's showing me that he's sorry in other ways. 1122 00:51:21,080 --> 00:51:24,960 Like, surely you've noticed by the other (BLEEP)-ups that you did 1123 00:51:25,040 --> 00:51:27,240 that all I wanted was your affection. 1124 00:51:29,320 --> 00:51:32,000 You might feel like I want space, but no, I really want you 1125 00:51:32,080 --> 00:51:34,160 to try really, really hard to win me over and make me... 1126 00:51:34,240 --> 00:51:35,680 I'm sorry, I just assumed... ..make me feel like you're... 1127 00:51:35,760 --> 00:51:36,960 You only want me. I just assumed that you didn't 1128 00:51:37,000 --> 00:51:38,160 wanted to see me at all. 1129 00:51:38,240 --> 00:51:39,560 Because I wasn't getting no reply from you. 1130 00:51:39,640 --> 00:51:41,680 I just thought (BLEEP). She just doesn't want to see me at all. 1131 00:51:41,720 --> 00:51:43,080 I was, I just... 1132 00:51:43,840 --> 00:51:46,400 All I wanted to do was... Even like just one, 1133 00:51:46,480 --> 00:51:48,760 one text back, just an acknowledgement saying like, 1134 00:51:48,840 --> 00:51:50,360 look, I just need my space. I need my time. 1135 00:51:50,440 --> 00:51:52,120 Like, I'm just not ready to talk to you yet. 1136 00:51:52,200 --> 00:51:54,440 That's all... It would have been... It would have been good. 1137 00:51:54,520 --> 00:51:56,080 No, you can't... No, no, no, no, no, no, no. 1138 00:51:56,160 --> 00:51:58,080 You can't expect that from her. No, I know I'm in the wrong. 1139 00:51:58,160 --> 00:52:00,000 That's putting it on Carina a bit. And it's the third time. 1140 00:52:00,080 --> 00:52:02,400 No, no, no, I know. No, I know, but let me just finish. 1141 00:52:05,080 --> 00:52:07,160 Because I was being fully ghosted... 1142 00:52:27,240 --> 00:52:28,920 He ghosted me. Yeah. 1143 00:52:30,720 --> 00:52:33,840 Do you remember when we went on that first hike? 1144 00:52:33,920 --> 00:52:36,040 And then... And then we were meant to go out for dinner 1145 00:52:36,120 --> 00:52:38,200 that Saturday night. Remember that? 1146 00:52:38,280 --> 00:52:40,360 I started getting ready, and I came to meet you 1147 00:52:40,440 --> 00:52:42,440 and you said, "I'm so sorry. It's just going to be a boys night. 1148 00:52:42,520 --> 00:52:45,160 But I really, really, really want to see you. 1149 00:52:45,240 --> 00:52:46,640 And then I was like, what the (BLEEP)? 1150 00:52:46,680 --> 00:52:48,320 I was like... 1151 00:52:48,400 --> 00:52:50,080 Because it's bringing back (BLEEP) memories. 1152 00:52:50,120 --> 00:52:51,240 You're not consistent. 1153 00:52:51,280 --> 00:52:52,200 Yeah. 1154 00:52:52,280 --> 00:52:56,280 Didn't really appreciate him saying that I ghosted him 1155 00:52:56,320 --> 00:52:58,000 because it's making me think 1156 00:52:58,080 --> 00:53:01,240 like, wow, well, that's rich coming from you. 1157 00:53:01,320 --> 00:53:03,440 This is bringing back like, it's making me feel 1158 00:53:03,520 --> 00:53:05,440 like you genuinely are not interested in this. 1159 00:53:05,520 --> 00:53:06,880 Of course, I am. No. 1160 00:53:08,080 --> 00:53:10,160 Like, are you serious? Oh, babe. 1161 00:53:10,240 --> 00:53:14,280 The biggest thing that offends me so much and I feel so betrayed, 1162 00:53:14,360 --> 00:53:17,120 is that you literally were in my family home 1163 00:53:17,160 --> 00:53:18,320 the week before, Paul. 1164 00:53:18,400 --> 00:53:22,800 My dad gave you the yes, like that does not happen. 1165 00:53:22,840 --> 00:53:25,080 You came into my home. 1166 00:53:25,120 --> 00:53:26,840 We treated you like a son. 1167 00:53:26,920 --> 00:53:30,480 The world was given to you, everything that you wanted. 1168 00:53:30,560 --> 00:53:32,280 Then the next week, you're going on a date with another woman. 1169 00:53:32,320 --> 00:53:33,280 I'm sorry. 1170 00:53:33,360 --> 00:53:35,120 How am I going to wrap my head around these things? 1171 00:53:35,200 --> 00:53:37,400 And that is the ultimate disrespect. I know it doesn't make any sense... 1172 00:53:37,480 --> 00:53:39,400 Like, just imagine if your sister's partner 1173 00:53:39,440 --> 00:53:41,240 or boyfriend did this to her. 1174 00:53:41,280 --> 00:53:43,720 How would you as a brother feel? 1175 00:53:43,800 --> 00:53:45,640 Would you be protective and overbearing? 1176 00:53:45,720 --> 00:53:47,200 Would you... What would you do? I've been there, like... 1177 00:53:47,240 --> 00:53:48,280 Yeah, 100%, I'd be upset. 1178 00:53:48,360 --> 00:53:49,840 So, imagine your sister in my position. 1179 00:53:54,800 --> 00:53:59,360 This is why we put this final task right before final vows, 1180 00:53:59,440 --> 00:54:02,440 to test our couples' commitment to one another, 1181 00:54:02,520 --> 00:54:05,320 and that's so important before they make that final decision. 1182 00:54:06,960 --> 00:54:10,200 Real life is so much more nuanced and complicated. 1183 00:54:11,440 --> 00:54:15,560 But it's not until this happens that we really get the full picture. 1184 00:54:18,840 --> 00:54:21,320 I never meant to hurt Carina. I never... 1185 00:54:21,400 --> 00:54:22,640 But you have. I know I have, I know. 1186 00:54:22,720 --> 00:54:24,240 You've made me feel so insecure. I know this, I know. 1187 00:54:24,320 --> 00:54:25,840 You've made me feel like I'm not worthy. 1188 00:54:25,920 --> 00:54:28,480 You've made me feel like I'm not good enough for you. 1189 00:54:32,320 --> 00:54:33,680 I don't know. I don't know how to feel. 1190 00:54:33,760 --> 00:54:35,080 I think... Yeah. 1191 00:54:35,160 --> 00:54:37,360 The effort needs to be put in, man. Yeah, like... 1192 00:54:37,400 --> 00:54:38,800 The effort needs to be put in 1193 00:54:38,880 --> 00:54:40,960 'cause you'll never know otherwise. You can't just give up. 1194 00:54:41,040 --> 00:54:42,360 The only thing I want to say is, like, you know, 1195 00:54:42,440 --> 00:54:44,760 like we've had an amazing experiment. 1196 00:54:44,800 --> 00:54:45,600 We've had an amazing time 1197 00:54:45,680 --> 00:54:48,120 and we've had like little ups and downs throughout the experiment. 1198 00:54:48,200 --> 00:54:49,840 But overall, it's been... We've had... 1199 00:54:49,880 --> 00:54:50,800 I mean, correct me if I'm wrong, 1200 00:54:50,880 --> 00:54:52,760 but we've had an amazing time, a beautiful time, 1201 00:54:52,800 --> 00:54:54,280 and I did a massive (BLEEP)-up 1202 00:54:54,360 --> 00:54:56,440 and I do realise that, which is why... 1203 00:54:56,520 --> 00:54:57,840 But I feel like... ..I want to fight for it. 1204 00:54:57,920 --> 00:54:59,200 'Cause I don't want to... ..all of that has like 1205 00:54:59,280 --> 00:55:01,880 fully just gone out the window for me. 1206 00:55:01,920 --> 00:55:03,200 All of that has gone out the window 1207 00:55:03,280 --> 00:55:06,040 because I'm trying to figure out if you're genuine or not. 1208 00:55:07,640 --> 00:55:14,480 All I hear are words and Paul trying to justify his reasoning, 1209 00:55:14,560 --> 00:55:17,040 continuously apologising and saying sorry, 1210 00:55:17,120 --> 00:55:20,080 and I've heard it so many times that it's like, 1211 00:55:20,120 --> 00:55:22,040 it's like you're a broken record. 1212 00:55:22,960 --> 00:55:24,040 Try harder. 1213 00:55:24,080 --> 00:55:25,840 No, I'm a catch. 1214 00:55:25,880 --> 00:55:27,760 Anyone would die to be with me. 1215 00:55:27,840 --> 00:55:29,960 I'm a catch and that's that. Sorry. I'm a catch. 1216 00:55:31,280 --> 00:55:32,600 Thank you. You are. 1217 00:55:32,680 --> 00:55:34,280 You're great. That's why you're here, Paul. 1218 00:55:34,360 --> 00:55:36,000 You're great. Don't... Don't blow yourself. 1219 00:55:36,080 --> 00:55:37,720 Well, no, apparently, I'm just... I'm just shit. 1220 00:55:37,800 --> 00:55:39,120 You just have to try harder, that's all. 1221 00:55:54,240 --> 00:55:56,280 A lot of the questions that I was asking to Carina, 1222 00:55:56,360 --> 00:55:59,120 obviously like, yes, some of her answers were extremely hard, 1223 00:55:59,200 --> 00:56:01,960 extremely hard to hear, hard to swallow. 1224 00:56:02,000 --> 00:56:02,960 But... 1225 00:56:05,560 --> 00:56:08,520 Yeah. Look, yeah, and I guess, once again, I've just - I've put myself 1226 00:56:08,560 --> 00:56:10,160 in that situation, so... 1227 00:56:18,680 --> 00:56:20,920 I guess I just got what I deserve, I don't know. 1228 00:56:34,960 --> 00:56:36,920 Sorry, guys. Give me two secs. 1229 00:56:56,320 --> 00:56:57,400 (BLEEP) 1230 00:57:17,640 --> 00:57:19,480 RYAN: So damn smart. 1231 00:57:19,560 --> 00:57:21,000 That's literally one of my favourite things 1232 00:57:21,080 --> 00:57:23,200 is I can engage with you on so many levels 1233 00:57:23,280 --> 00:57:25,280 and sometimes get lost along the way, so... Yeah. 1234 00:57:25,320 --> 00:57:27,360 (LAUGHS) 1235 00:57:27,400 --> 00:57:29,640 Someone's getting laid tonight. 1236 00:57:29,720 --> 00:57:31,360 (LAUGHTER) Back to you. 1237 00:57:31,440 --> 00:57:35,080 Imagine being at a dinner party where you're like, 1238 00:57:35,160 --> 00:57:38,080 Jacqui and Ryan are one of the strongest relationships we have. 1239 00:57:38,120 --> 00:57:40,200 (LAUGHTER) 1240 00:57:40,280 --> 00:57:44,360 Well, that's a... That's a tough day in the office right there. 1241 00:57:45,600 --> 00:57:46,800 JEFF: We haven't spoken about you guys. 1242 00:57:46,880 --> 00:57:49,280 You guys both went on the date? What was your reasoning behind it? 1243 00:57:50,560 --> 00:57:52,120 Because I wanted to make sure that at final vows... 1244 00:57:55,040 --> 00:57:57,120 I've really put our relationship to the test, 1245 00:57:57,200 --> 00:58:00,320 and it made me question what a marriage really is 1246 00:58:00,400 --> 00:58:03,040 and like how much Ryan and I have gone through 1247 00:58:03,080 --> 00:58:04,920 in the three months that we've had, 1248 00:58:04,960 --> 00:58:06,720 and like all the ups and downs 1249 00:58:06,800 --> 00:58:08,160 and the fact that we've been so resilient 1250 00:58:08,240 --> 00:58:09,880 and that we're still committed to one another. 1251 00:58:10,680 --> 00:58:12,520 Do you think it brought you stronger together? 1252 00:58:12,600 --> 00:58:15,760 Because that is a remarkable turnaround in our eyes. 1253 00:58:16,440 --> 00:58:18,840 Like, I took this task very seriously, 1254 00:58:18,880 --> 00:58:20,080 with my whole heart in it, 1255 00:58:20,160 --> 00:58:23,040 and I can say Ryan is one of, like, the strongest men 1256 00:58:23,080 --> 00:58:24,080 I've ever met. 1257 00:58:25,080 --> 00:58:27,160 He's one of the most physically attractive men I've ever met. 1258 00:58:28,400 --> 00:58:29,840 And I'm now attracted to him. 1259 00:58:31,640 --> 00:58:34,240 So, like, in terms of would I consider you 1260 00:58:34,280 --> 00:58:35,720 as a potential life partner... 1261 00:58:36,720 --> 00:58:38,000 Absolutely, yes. 1262 00:58:42,560 --> 00:58:45,680 In life, the grass may look greener, 1263 00:58:45,760 --> 00:58:48,240 but the question is whether you want to go into the grass 1264 00:58:48,320 --> 00:58:50,280 and whether you want to actually move to that grass, 1265 00:58:50,360 --> 00:58:52,560 and like, that's what marriage is about. 1266 00:58:52,640 --> 00:58:54,160 It's being like, you know, I'm going to admire 1267 00:58:54,200 --> 00:58:55,200 the green grass over there. 1268 00:58:55,240 --> 00:58:57,400 But like, that's not my grass. 1269 00:58:57,440 --> 00:58:59,360 My grass is here and I'm going to... 1270 00:58:59,400 --> 00:59:00,360 What do they say? 1271 00:59:00,400 --> 00:59:02,640 (LAUGHTER) 1272 00:59:02,720 --> 00:59:05,200 The grass isn't greener on the other side. 1273 00:59:05,280 --> 00:59:06,800 The grass is greener where you water it. 1274 00:59:06,880 --> 00:59:08,360 And that's what Ryan and I have been doing 1275 00:59:08,400 --> 00:59:09,360 over the past three months. 1276 00:59:09,400 --> 00:59:11,120 (LAUGHTER) 1277 00:59:11,200 --> 00:59:12,920 We're still watering our grass and it's still growing. 1278 00:59:12,960 --> 00:59:15,360 We're happy. (LAUGHS) 1279 00:59:15,960 --> 00:59:17,560 I know we both went on the date. 1280 00:59:17,640 --> 00:59:20,440 The fact that she did show up in a lot of different ways afterwards 1281 00:59:20,480 --> 00:59:22,120 that like - that reassured me. 1282 00:59:23,000 --> 00:59:25,440 I think you've... I think you've really grown into understanding 1283 00:59:25,480 --> 00:59:26,960 my perspective... 1284 00:59:28,880 --> 00:59:29,840 AWHINA: It's a shitty feeling 1285 00:59:29,920 --> 00:59:32,400 watching a couple like Jacqui and Ryan, 1286 00:59:32,480 --> 00:59:35,800 who had some very real issues, regardless of the last week, 1287 00:59:35,840 --> 00:59:37,760 get stronger, 1288 00:59:37,840 --> 00:59:42,240 and then when push came to shove, Adrian and I really crumbled, 1289 00:59:42,320 --> 00:59:45,240 and I'm - yeah, I'm disappointed and I don't feel great. 1290 00:59:49,760 --> 00:59:51,120 ADRIAN: And I've actually said from day one, 1291 00:59:51,160 --> 00:59:52,080 these guys are going to be the one 1292 00:59:52,160 --> 00:59:53,960 that actually lasts out of this relationship. 1293 00:59:54,040 --> 00:59:57,160 (LAUGHTER) And I keep saying that. 1294 00:59:57,240 --> 00:59:59,880 Everyone calls me crazy, but these two are gonna last! 1295 01:00:01,040 --> 01:00:02,240 I'm gonna stay on my word here. 1296 01:00:02,320 --> 01:00:05,560 I've been pretty good at predicting certain things. 1297 01:00:05,640 --> 01:00:08,320 I'm gonna say, once the experiment ends, 1298 01:00:08,400 --> 01:00:09,960 they're going to stay together for some time. 1299 01:00:10,000 --> 01:00:11,360 Yeah. Yeah. 1300 01:00:12,280 --> 01:00:14,000 It makes no sense to me or anyone else, 1301 01:00:14,080 --> 01:00:16,680 but it makes sense to them, and that's why post-experiment, 1302 01:00:16,760 --> 01:00:18,840 they're going to stay together and shock everyone. 1303 01:00:20,040 --> 01:00:21,440 And I said it here first. 1304 01:00:22,320 --> 01:00:24,520 Was your was your date more compatible, Adrian? 1305 01:00:26,080 --> 01:00:27,080 No. 1306 01:00:28,960 --> 01:00:31,360 No. So, me and her, we did have things in common. 1307 01:00:32,560 --> 01:00:33,520 Like what? 1308 01:00:37,640 --> 01:00:38,920 She's into the gym, same as Awhina. 1309 01:00:39,000 --> 01:00:40,960 But we had, say, you know, the only difference was... 1310 01:00:46,080 --> 01:00:47,480 So, yeah. 1311 01:00:48,400 --> 01:00:49,880 We're on the date... 1312 01:00:49,960 --> 01:00:53,320 I sort of came to a realisation that the long distance 1313 01:00:53,360 --> 01:00:54,480 is the hardest challenge. 1314 01:00:58,160 --> 01:00:59,560 But yeah, I'm not willing to do long distance 1315 01:00:59,600 --> 01:01:01,320 for a long period of time. 1316 01:01:01,400 --> 01:01:04,080 So, I feel pressured that I have to make the move 1317 01:01:04,160 --> 01:01:07,640 to Perth and yeah, no, it is a massive decision. 1318 01:01:07,720 --> 01:01:11,000 We both said we were willing to do long distance. 1319 01:01:11,840 --> 01:01:12,840 Are you? 1320 01:01:13,840 --> 01:01:15,200 Prior to this commitment ceremony, 1321 01:01:15,280 --> 01:01:18,680 last week, I was like, yeah, for a short period of time. Yes. 1322 01:01:18,760 --> 01:01:21,760 But then we did this date thing and I asked myself, why did I go? 1323 01:01:21,800 --> 01:01:22,760 Why? 1324 01:01:22,800 --> 01:01:23,920 So, now you're questioning 1325 01:01:24,000 --> 01:01:25,440 if you actually have strong feelings for Awhina or not? 1326 01:01:29,720 --> 01:01:30,520 I've spent 12 weeks, 1327 01:01:30,600 --> 01:01:31,800 one of the best experiences I've had in my life. 1328 01:01:32,880 --> 01:01:35,200 I think when we're good, it's good, I think it's great, 1329 01:01:35,240 --> 01:01:36,080 and I think we have fun. 1330 01:01:37,480 --> 01:01:40,400 And we don't actually worry about anything else 1331 01:01:40,480 --> 01:01:43,240 besides the present moment, spending time with each other. 1332 01:01:45,040 --> 01:01:47,760 But again, do I care enough to pack up bags tomorrow and leave? 1333 01:01:47,800 --> 01:01:48,680 No. 1334 01:01:53,200 --> 01:01:55,680 I feel like everything's turned... So, do I. 1335 01:01:58,440 --> 01:02:00,840 I'm so confused by Adrian. 1336 01:02:02,120 --> 01:02:03,840 In one stance, you go, "No, I could see 1337 01:02:03,920 --> 01:02:05,560 "a long distance relationship with Awhina." 1338 01:02:05,640 --> 01:02:08,080 Then another instance, you're saying, "I'm not sure." 1339 01:02:09,000 --> 01:02:10,560 When I voice my concerns, 1340 01:02:10,640 --> 01:02:14,920 I do feel like sometimes he tries to brush everything under the rug. 1341 01:02:16,240 --> 01:02:17,720 Yes, I like Adrian. 1342 01:02:17,800 --> 01:02:19,600 I've got a physical attraction to Adrian. 1343 01:02:19,680 --> 01:02:21,600 My feelings definitely have grown. 1344 01:02:21,680 --> 01:02:24,000 But do I have doubt that we're going to survive 1345 01:02:24,080 --> 01:02:26,760 a long distance relationship? Yes. 1346 01:02:31,160 --> 01:02:33,040 I said when we did this date thing this week, 1347 01:02:33,120 --> 01:02:35,520 and like I said, me and Awhina, we (BLEEP), we did (BLEEP) up. 1348 01:02:37,520 --> 01:02:39,640 It's funny, though, this language you're using right now, 1349 01:02:39,720 --> 01:02:41,560 you didn't use when you came back to that room that day. 1350 01:02:42,840 --> 01:02:45,040 I was the one questioning why you and I did it. 1351 01:02:45,080 --> 01:02:46,440 You didn't even seem to care. 1352 01:02:47,240 --> 01:02:49,240 But I feel like there was a lot of questions on my end 1353 01:02:49,320 --> 01:02:51,560 and a lot of conviction in regards to this task 1354 01:02:51,640 --> 01:02:52,640 and this long... Right, OK. 1355 01:02:52,720 --> 01:02:54,760 ..and this long-distance relationship. 1356 01:02:54,840 --> 01:02:58,120 But I feel like you skirted around everything, 1357 01:02:58,200 --> 01:02:59,800 but you come in tonight and you're like to everyone... 1358 01:02:59,880 --> 01:03:02,560 It was a date and yeah, I regret it. 1359 01:03:04,200 --> 01:03:06,600 And long-distance seems almost unachievable right now. 1360 01:03:07,640 --> 01:03:10,520 I felt pressured that you want an answer from me 1361 01:03:10,560 --> 01:03:11,840 that I cannot give you right now. 1362 01:03:12,840 --> 01:03:14,440 I'm feeling pressured that if I don't move, 1363 01:03:14,480 --> 01:03:15,560 this doesn't work. 1364 01:03:16,160 --> 01:03:18,600 I just feel like your language today is so different 1365 01:03:18,680 --> 01:03:20,160 to your language when you walked back to the apartment. 1366 01:03:20,200 --> 01:03:21,520 You know exactly where I stand. 1367 01:03:22,200 --> 01:03:24,000 I don't really see myself moving right now. 1368 01:03:24,720 --> 01:03:27,000 I've said from the start, do I see myself moving, 1369 01:03:27,080 --> 01:03:28,800 you know, for the right person? Eventually. 1370 01:03:28,880 --> 01:03:30,120 Maybe one day, if that. I don't know, maybe. 1371 01:03:30,200 --> 01:03:32,280 For the right person, that's the issue, Adrian. 1372 01:03:34,400 --> 01:03:36,440 Let's not hide behind this (BLEEP) challenge, Adrian. 1373 01:03:36,480 --> 01:03:37,760 What challenge? 1374 01:03:37,840 --> 01:03:39,600 Let's not hide behind long-distance. 1375 01:03:41,360 --> 01:03:43,480 I am not the right person. 1376 01:03:43,520 --> 01:03:44,440 Say it. 1377 01:03:44,480 --> 01:03:47,280 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 1378 01:03:49,560 --> 01:03:50,560 Say it. 1379 01:03:59,920 --> 01:04:02,160 I've said from the start, do I see myself moving, 1380 01:04:02,240 --> 01:04:03,960 you know, for the right person, eventually. 1381 01:04:04,040 --> 01:04:05,160 Maybe one day, if that. I don't know, maybe. 1382 01:04:05,240 --> 01:04:06,960 For the right person. That's the issue, Adrian. 1383 01:04:08,600 --> 01:04:10,600 Let's not hide behind this (BLEEP) challenge, Adrian. 1384 01:04:10,640 --> 01:04:11,520 What challenge? 1385 01:04:11,600 --> 01:04:13,600 Let's not hide behind long-distance. 1386 01:04:15,920 --> 01:04:18,040 I am not the right person. 1387 01:04:18,080 --> 01:04:19,160 Say it. 1388 01:04:21,000 --> 01:04:22,840 Yeah, right now is uncertainty. 1389 01:04:26,000 --> 01:04:27,720 Would you move to Sydney? 1390 01:04:29,080 --> 01:04:30,960 Absolutely (BLEEP) not. 1391 01:04:32,280 --> 01:04:33,080 There you go. 1392 01:04:35,280 --> 01:04:37,640 You're both answering that off like emotion right now. 1393 01:04:39,920 --> 01:04:42,360 Do you see any point going to Final Vows? 1394 01:04:44,720 --> 01:04:46,360 Um... 1395 01:04:46,400 --> 01:04:47,440 No. 1396 01:04:47,520 --> 01:04:49,520 Absolutely. Right this instant, no. A big no. 1397 01:04:55,360 --> 01:04:57,680 I feel like the reasons I'm here... 1398 01:04:59,160 --> 01:05:01,800 ..aren't good enough to have given up... 1399 01:05:05,160 --> 01:05:06,520 ..what I have. 1400 01:05:09,200 --> 01:05:10,400 Babe. 1401 01:05:14,880 --> 01:05:20,520 I stayed for him, but it's not been worth it the entire time. 1402 01:05:26,880 --> 01:05:29,480 I don't want to be here wasting my time anymore. 1403 01:05:33,200 --> 01:05:35,280 What the hell does that mean? Why? 1404 01:05:35,360 --> 01:05:36,760 What the hell does that... Why? 1405 01:05:36,800 --> 01:05:38,800 (BLEEP) final vows! 1406 01:05:44,120 --> 01:05:45,600 JAMIE: Fifi, are you OK? 1407 01:05:46,880 --> 01:05:49,160 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 1408 01:05:58,920 --> 01:06:02,200 I feel like I have, throughout this whole experiment, 1409 01:06:02,280 --> 01:06:06,880 just put him on a (BLEEP) pedestal and I'm over it. 1410 01:06:09,000 --> 01:06:11,040 I just would have loved just a little bit of reassurance 1411 01:06:11,080 --> 01:06:12,520 from my partner. 1412 01:06:14,640 --> 01:06:16,240 For him to step up to the plate. 1413 01:06:18,160 --> 01:06:19,200 Just one time. 1414 01:06:22,160 --> 01:06:24,000 I know, I know. 1415 01:06:25,920 --> 01:06:28,640 NARRATOR: Next time, over two big nights... 1416 01:06:29,320 --> 01:06:32,560 It's the final vows ceremonies. 1417 01:06:32,640 --> 01:06:35,400 DAVE: I'm taking this decision very seriously, like... 1418 01:06:35,480 --> 01:06:38,040 NARRATOR: Which of our couples will continue their marriage 1419 01:06:38,080 --> 01:06:40,640 beyond the experiment? 1420 01:06:40,720 --> 01:06:41,880 CARINA: It's one of the biggest decisions 1421 01:06:41,920 --> 01:06:43,640 I've had to make in my life. 1422 01:06:44,800 --> 01:06:46,640 I have something I also want to tell you as well. 1423 01:06:46,720 --> 01:06:48,760 NARRATOR: Jacqui's shock confession... 1424 01:06:48,840 --> 01:06:50,480 I don't really like keeping secrets from you. 1425 01:06:50,520 --> 01:06:52,640 ..leaves Ryan reeling. 1426 01:06:52,680 --> 01:06:53,960 It's made me angry. 1427 01:06:54,640 --> 01:06:55,680 What are you going to do? 1428 01:06:55,720 --> 01:06:58,000 NARRATOR: Awhina's ultimate decision. 1429 01:06:58,080 --> 01:07:00,160 Would you be happy if you had a daughter 1430 01:07:00,200 --> 01:07:01,840 to be with someone like Adrian? 1431 01:07:01,920 --> 01:07:05,000 NARRATOR: It's the conclusion no one saw coming. 1432 01:07:07,680 --> 01:07:08,560 NARRATOR: And... 1433 01:07:08,640 --> 01:07:11,200 Carina, you are kind and compassionate. 1434 01:07:11,280 --> 01:07:14,120 All I can do now is ask for your forgiveness. 1435 01:07:14,200 --> 01:07:17,280 NARRATOR: Can Carina forgive Paul one last time? 1436 01:07:18,640 --> 01:07:21,600 Captioned by AI-Media ai-media.tv